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    Awkward at work

    I've felt awkward at EVERY job I've ever had. I think its completely normal. Its one of those forced situations that everyone here dreads. I do agree that to maintain decent work relationships requires "putting on a face". Most people I work with would never know how awkward I really feel...
  2. J

    How many people over 20 are still virgins?

    25, female and virgin. Not for religious reasons. I just feel like the environment I was raised in made it hard to connect with anyone remotely similar to myself. I am also naturally introverted. Middle school and high school for me were hell and I didn't have many friends, so college for me was...
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    Online dating, where dreams go to die...

    That exact situation happened to me! I'd actually start talking to someone decent then some creeper would come around and completely scare me off. women can be funny like that. I don't think the OP should take it personally. Women go into protective mode easily.
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    online dating find: perhaps it's not you, it's your environment

    To me, if you go up to a women and say "hello, how are you", "hello, what's your name" etc etc I wouldn't consider you creepy. What I DO consider creepy is being cat called or whispered to like "hey, come here", "hey, spsss spsss" that is really inappropriate and I'll never understand why men...
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    online dating find: perhaps it's not you, it's your environment

    I completely agree with this. Where I currently live (dallas, tx) I'm rarely hit on by any guys. So I've grown up feeling unattractive to be honest. If I am hit on, its usually by some creepy old man in a really scary way. But over christmas I took a trip to New Orleans, Louisiana with a...
  6. J

    How to Relate to People When You Have no Interests?

    I used to feel like I had this same problem. I found some great advice that I think really helped me and its quite simple. Ask the person you are talking to questions and get them talking. People love to talk about themselves, heck you can really have an hour long "conversation" with someone and...
  7. J

    should i stay or go?

    thank you :D
  8. J

    should i stay or go?

    yes thats exactly the plan.
  9. J

    should i stay or go?

    I graduated college in May 2013 and have been living at home with my mom, dad, and 3 younger sisters ever since. After many horrible jobs I've managed to secure full time employment at a place that I enjoy and pays decently (basically above minimum wage). I'm 25 years old and applying to...
  10. J

    Teaching myself to draw

    I come from a family of artists. I used to be really good at drawing, even went to art school briefly but totally lost my skill afters years of not using it :( I want to learn to draw really well again because I want to be one of those cool people who draw in the park or libraries and everyone...
  11. J

    loneliness led to mass murder

    And now your consciously attacking me and bullying me by calling me a "troll" because of something you don't like? That's low. That's Exactly what I was intending. Just people's views opinions on the motives of this kid. That's all. Clearly I'm not implying you, me or we ARE anythinglike this...
  12. J

    loneliness led to mass murder

    I agree.
  13. J

    loneliness led to mass murder

    Ok great. Nice to know your opinion on the subject.
  14. J

    loneliness led to mass murder

    Ok so I'm a woman so no, I can't compare to this man who decided to kill the WOMEN who he felt "wronged" him. Nothing to do with me.
  15. J

    loneliness led to mass murder

    The only thing I feel can be learned from this man is how ridiculous some men look to the outside world when they are worshipping certain women and ideals of what a "good" life is. Why couldn't he give someone else a chance himself? Instead of begging the victoria secret models to look twice at...
  16. J

    loneliness led to mass murder

    "Maybe his loneliness, his isolation, could have been resolved if he stopped chasing after women of certain looks and focused more on the inner beauty? " ...trying to drive home a point here. Most men are perfectly decent individuals but only want what they "want" and think they "deserve" then...
  17. J

    loneliness led to mass murder

    I don't feel sorry for him. I do feel bad for him..i don't know if thats the same thing. Part of me is like "****, couldn't someone just be his freakin friend!". IN NO WAY AM I EXCUSING HIS MASS MURDER PSYCHOPATHIC BEHAVIOR. Go back and look at my P.S. Uh it was just to add a discussion...
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    loneliness led to mass murder

    There was a shooting on the UC Santa Barbara campus on Friday Night. Elliot Rodgers, the son of the director (or a "second unit director" as i've been corrected) of the hunger games, is the suspected shooter. He left 7 people dead and 13 others injured before turning the gun on himself. In this...
  19. J

    Terrible Life Thus Far

    When you go home just do everything you can to be out of the house during the day. That way you'll literally only be there to sleep. You're an adult, you can do this. This is what I do. I work and go to school, or I'm in the library or Starbucks. I do ANYTHING to just stay out the house because...
  20. J

    Terrible Life Thus Far

    I'm sure its the last thing you want to hear but i think you really should go back to your dad and step moms house. I know you don't want to be a burden to them, and you want to be independent but this is exactly what family is for! your stepmom may be unbearable (and i relate to that) but you...
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