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Most definitely. Even if you fail the first few times, keep going. I like that you want to be silly and naive and believe in love and friendship. It's bad to be resentful and bitter about these things. Yes, start with a dog. I know I did when I moved to a new place. The dog was my friend.

I don't have the intention of wrapping people around my finger. And not everybody wants to listen to people's experiences in life all the time. Some people may be just interested in view and opinions about other things.

Deeper meaning stuff helps you discover more of life, not about droning. Small talk can be droning. Maybe you meet low quality people, that's why. Or maybe you can't get along with the majority, so of course you have to settle for the next best thing which is to be content with being alone...

Beautifully said. I try very hard to go against it daily but I fail.

All answers are good but EVERYbody is different. Some people are happy with just a family, some with careers, some with hobbies and interests, some with nature, some alone, some need friendships and love. Obviously, it is easier if you are someone who can find peace and satisfaction in things...

It's not about feeling bitter and resentment but being independent and responsible for your own frustrations in life. I try not to run to someone, especially if its a guy, when I am feeling that lost in life. And to move IN with him? I don't know. And it sounds like Dave may have some romantic...

I think I know what you mean. Although I don't think you need to be completely honest when you find friends. I know you said you feel you can't make friends because of how screwed up your life is. I don't think that to make friends, your life needs to be in order. I think almost everyone has a...

God, I know exactly what you mean. There's an article here done by science daily which talks about our well being is related to having LESS small talk and more substantive talk. http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/03/100304165902.htm I completely agree. I am not into small talk as...

Never, never when you are feeling lost and depressed try to seek comfort in the opposite sex. Try your best to sort out your life first.

This is beautiful. I'm very surprised by your knowledge about love.

Have you been raped? Framed up and then spent 20 years in prison? I'm just curious what you mean by evil. Whatever it is, I think your way of thinking towards human beings is quite normal and natural. The only difference between you and some other regular person is that they choose to put...

I think often times, it is a confidence issue. I've seen guys who are so fat and just horribly unpleasant looking who have both female and male friends and are out there doing things they enjoy. There is no excuse.

Correction. Women have been trained that they are nothing but objects to be used by men. It's a man's world. It's normal for men to ask women out or make the first move and its okay if they get rejected. It's 'normal'. Men always ***** about women not making the first move but when a woman...

Yep. This pretty much explains how I feel.

To be honest, I don't know what is it that makes me lonely. At first, I thought it was not having friends which I didn't. I was completely friend-less for about 1.5 years. I never went anywhere with my cellphone because nobody would call or text anyways and I had no one to text or call. It was...

I think you're doing the right thing. It really depends on your personality. Once I was at a Single's Party and I came across this very bubbly and open woman in her late 40s. She's a single parent. She was casually telling everybody that she was there because of loneliness. It was the way she...

I really feel you, annik. I am 29 this year and am facing the same problems. Let's start with this one question. What makes you happy/feel good?

I think you're in a right place in life right now. Perhaps do something out of the ordinary. Something you've wanted to try before but haven't due to whatever reasons. List those things and then make it a point to do it. A lot of people are being terribly unrealistic towards love, relationships...

If you want to be loved, you have to give away your heart many times and sometimes you will be hurt badly, that is the price. I was just talking to one of my friends yesterday and she told me she has a boyfriend now. She's 31. And prior to this guy, she had an ex about 7 years ago. Then, she...

I had similar situations to yours. Was deeply fond of someone until I found out about his 'past' and just made me sick. Different people will have different thoughts about this. The guy I knew could separate emotions from sex and did it like popping tarts. For me it wasn't. Slowly I had no...