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Women using men as sex objects
07-30-2010, 06:19 AM,
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Women using men as sex objects
Recently I met a very attractive asian lady, we went to catch a movie (inception-terrible movie imo) since the theater was packed I felt it rude to engage in a full blown conversation amidst the movie-goers. I offered a bite to eat at the local applebee's and we had a cute conversation, needless to say I didn't want the night to end so young so after such an engaging conversation.

After another conversational outbreak at a convenience store since the applebee's closed I begrudgingly offered to continue our talk at my house. I didn't want to appear as though I wanted sex on our first date, she agreed to come over and talk some more. After 2 hours of engaging intercourse I noticed she was positioning herself to rub my nether region, it was playful at first ( my attempts to stave her groping ). Yet after 2 hours of her groping and saying she liked seeing me squirm as she teased me while repeating " don't worry you're not getting sex from me". I rebutted with " hey I'm quite fond of you, I don't want to have sex" but her persistence paid off and we engaged in sexual activity until the sun was rising.

Later she admitted she just wanted to use me for sex and that it was great. I've only met 3 women who have not had sex with me on the first encounter, 3....out of many.

I saw the post about men using women as sex objects but it's clearly not so in my case. In fact recently I dont' have the same sexual urges I used to have as a teenager, I've learned patience to a great degree but I feel as though if I don't do it they'll just find someone else and continue a strange pseudo friendship/relationship with me devoid of sex.
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07-30-2010, 06:28 AM,
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RE: Women using men as sex objects
To be honest, I wouldn't mind if women used me for sex.
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07-30-2010, 10:55 AM,
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RE: Women using men as sex objects
Hi-
So just this woman used you for sex or all the previous women who slept with you on the first date used you too? I'm guessing you met most of these women at bars or clubs where the alcohol was flowing freely. Perhaps if you met them at a different time or place, the first date would have gone differently.
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07-30-2010, 11:04 AM, (This post was last modified: 07-30-2010, 11:11 AM by Nyu001.)
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RE: Women using men as sex objects
Do you think by letting them or in this case her using you as a "sex object" makes you like you was using her as a sexual object too by accepting sex to have fun for that moment when you are not in something deep with her? Even if was not originally your intention to have sex with her?
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07-30-2010, 11:16 AM,
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RE: Women using men as sex objects
*agreeing with Nyu001* Surely you weren't expecting a long term relationship when you had sex on the first date.

Also, us Asian girls are frisky.
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07-30-2010, 12:10 PM,
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RE: Women using men as sex objects
Sex on the first date..... that surely kind of ruins any chances for a proper potential relationship for alot of people anyway, i suppose that is talking quite generally though.

I myself cant really talk on the subject though, being 23, a virgin and had only one girlfriend in my life.... what a rediculously shy pathetic loser i am.
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07-30-2010, 12:27 PM,
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RE: Women using men as sex objects
(07-30-2010, 12:10 PM)ShybutHi Wrote: Sex on the first date..... that surely kind of ruins any chances for a proper potential relationship for alot of people anyway, i suppose that is talking quite generally though.

I myself cant really talk on the subject though, being 23, a virgin and had only one girlfriend in my life.... what a rediculously shy pathetic loser i am.

No you're not a shy pathetic loser. At least girls you'll meet in the future know they won't catch a disease from you.
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07-30-2010, 12:37 PM, (This post was last modified: 07-30-2010, 12:38 PM by VanillaCreme.)
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RE: Women using men as sex objects
Well, you certainly didn't have to sleep with her. People only do to you what you allow them to do. You allow females to use you for sex. Even if you still wanted to invite her over for some reason, you could have said no to sex. Instead, you agreed to it.

Wouldn't have mattered either way about the relationship. Because instead of being the girl who wanted to sleep with you but you turned her down, she's now the girl who used you for sex, and the relationship is awkward anyway.

Don't let people use you.
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07-30-2010, 04:19 PM,
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RE: Women using men as sex objects
I wouldn't mind a girl just using me either, mostly because I know where the line is between fuck buddies and emotional/meaningful relationship... but a lot of people don't, so they can't handle it.

That kind of thing is only for single fun, and it's generally a one-shot deal. I see nothing entirely wrong with that. If I were in a serious relationship or looking for one, however, being used by a girl (other than my girlfriend, if I have one) would not be something I would allow to happen.
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07-31-2010, 12:55 AM, (This post was last modified: 07-31-2010, 12:56 AM by Lonesome Crow.)
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RE: Women using men as sex objects
Hahahahaaaaa......Use me and abuse baby Toungue
I'm just another piece of meat , just another piece of meat.
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