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Alone on my birthday....again.
02-05-2013, 02:40 PM,
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Alone on my birthday....again.
So as I sit here and type....I realize that my birthday is tomorrow and yet again its going to be the same as every year...with no one to celebrate it with friends. But I have gotten used to it, which is the worse part. Over the years I thought that I had friends that I have gotten to know and maybe thought that just once I will be remembered....but it just never occured to those that my birthday had passed...with no calling or wishing. But when its their birthdays I always make it a habit to call and sometimes I don't want to be mean but other times I don't want to be call a bad person...if anyone understands me... So yeah I didn't come here so that you know its my birthday..but how I had to endure for a long time with no one even thinking of me on my special day while I have to think of others on theirs. How I wish to have a huge party for me....I can only dream!
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02-05-2013, 04:20 PM,
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RE: Alone on my birthday....again.
well i dont know you and you dont know me but...i sincerley wish you a happy birthday tommorow and regardless if anyone wishes you one i hope you have a great day
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02-05-2013, 05:30 PM,
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RE: Alone on my birthday....again.
Make it a selfish day, do anything and everything that you enjoy, just because you don't spend it with friends doesn't mean you can't be happy on your b'day. Do you have any family you can spend it with? Don't be afraid to talk if you feel lonely.

I hope you have a good birthday!
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02-05-2013, 05:51 PM,
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RE: Alone on my birthday....again.
(02-05-2013, 02:40 PM)Annamar8031 Wrote: How I wish to have a huge party for me....I can only dream!

I know that feeling. I haven’t had a birthday party since 1987 on account of having no family or friends to celebrate it with. Sure I can treat myself for the day but it just isn’t the same is it? Like you I put in effort for other people and I drop little hints when my own is coming up (though I don’t want to overdo it) and yep, nothing happens, I’m sat somewhere alone wondering what went wrong.

Happy Birthday though, just remember that we are thinking of you here.
Take my love, take my land, take me where I can not stand.
I don't care, I'm still free. You can't take the sky from me.
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02-05-2013, 06:46 PM,
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RE: Alone on my birthday....again.
(02-05-2013, 02:40 PM)Annamar8031 Wrote: So as I sit here and type....I realize that my birthday is tomorrow and yet again its going to be the same as every year...with no one to celebrate it with friends. But I have gotten used to it, which is the worse part. Over the years I thought that I had friends that I have gotten to know and maybe thought that just once I will be remembered....but it just never occured to those that my birthday had passed...with no calling or wishing. But when its their birthdays I always make it a habit to call and sometimes I don't want to be mean but other times I don't want to be call a bad person...if anyone understands me... So yeah I didn't come here so that you know its my birthday..but how I had to endure for a long time with no one even thinking of me on my special day while I have to think of others on theirs. How I wish to have a huge party for me....I can only dream!

go out and spoil yourself !
Spend some money, buy stuff !
That's what I do and I don't mind my birthdays now !
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02-05-2013, 07:57 PM,
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RE: Alone on my birthday....again.
I haven't been to a birthday party since 1989...
Go do somethin man. Make it different.
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02-05-2013, 09:46 PM,
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RE: Alone on my birthday....again.
(02-05-2013, 07:57 PM)dreamsurfer Wrote: I haven't been to a birthday party since 1989...
Go do somethin man. Make it different.

yes nothing to stop you going by yourself somewhere !
Fuck other people !
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02-05-2013, 10:32 PM,
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RE: Alone on my birthday....again.
Happy birthday Anna Maria! Smile
Don't drink alcohol these days, but I will drink a coffee to celebrate your birthday
:p
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02-05-2013, 11:24 PM,
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RE: Alone on my birthday....again.
The only time anyone ever remembered my birthday (other than my parents) was when I posted it on facebook. I'd say birthdays are about you. You don't need to share it with another person to make it enjoyable. Go out and make a time of it. And perhaps meet new people along the way.
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02-05-2013, 11:37 PM,
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RE: Alone on my birthday....again.
(02-05-2013, 11:24 PM)MoesTavern Wrote: The only time anyone ever remembered my birthday (other than my parents) was when I posted it on facebook. I'd say birthdays are about you. You don't need to share it with another person to make it enjoyable. Go out and make a time of it. And perhaps meet new people along the way.

messages on facebook are pretty worthless anyway. It says on the screen, it's not like people remember.

My Dad often gets the day wrong. My mam always remembers. My Brother he might send a short text.

Some people at work never stop talking about theirs. I keep quiet and try and get the day off !
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