Naleena
Well-known member
When two people go out on a date for the first time, who pays? Does it matter?
EveWasFramed said:If I ask someone to accompany me somewhere, I pay.
ladyforsaken said:EveWasFramed said:If I ask someone to accompany me somewhere, I pay.
But what if it's a first date, like what Nal asked? Who do you think should pay?
I personally don't know who should but I would offer to, anyway.
ladyforsaken said:^Interesting! So have you asked guys out on dates before then?
perfanoff said:I wouldn't pay for her unless I know that money is a problem for her.
I feel that for two adults that supposedly have their own income, if one pays for the date, that degrades both of them.
9006 said:Naturally, I'd pay.
The way I see it, if I as a girl out, I wouldn't expect her to pay. It's also a common courtesy thing, kinda like holding a door open for her. But I hear some women exploit this courtesy, if this was the case; I'd ask for my money back, haha.
If she said she wanted to contribute it's not like i'd have a problem with that.
perfanoff said:Unfortunately chivalry in the modern world (and by all accounts, the medieval world, too) is this:
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