So, i'm currently at college with a small group of friends. This coming summer they'll all be leaving for university, whilst I am staying back an extra year due to drastically changing my course. Right now I'm comfortable, but I know what it's like when everyone around you is a stranger and, although I am relatively introvert and don't need much social interaction, within just a few hours of seeing groups of friends whilst I am alone I start feeling rejected and paranoid as if everyone is just staring at me and, after about a week, depression will set in. In classes this isn't so much of an issue, I just focus on work. Though there is a lot of downtime, free periods and such where you're "supposed" to hang out with your massive group of friends and laugh at the weird guy on his own.
Here's where I ask for help. I am confident people have been in similar situations to this, and I am lucky to be alone for just 1 year. So, what do I do? At home, there's the internet. But I am by no means rich, and a laptop is far out of my reach. I could just read textbooks. But that poses another question: where do I go? My college is **** busy (finding a table is like winning the lottery) and so I could find myself wandering. This is an issue as I find walking through the same corridor twice in a small space of time makes me paranoid as heck. If I could nail these issues I'm sure I'd be okay, but otherwise I know my negative emotions will detriment my work, and I am aiming for A's, so I haven't much room for mistake. I am not prepared to make a new friendship group for just 1 year, though.
So, for those who have had / are having similar experiences, how did / do you combat loneliness in college/school/university/whatever? What did you do to burn your free time? Any thoughts or feelings on the topic would be great and I'd love to hear about peoples experiences with this kind of stuff.
tl;dr: No friends at college, feel lonely, don't want to get depressed again, what to do / where to go in free time?
Here's where I ask for help. I am confident people have been in similar situations to this, and I am lucky to be alone for just 1 year. So, what do I do? At home, there's the internet. But I am by no means rich, and a laptop is far out of my reach. I could just read textbooks. But that poses another question: where do I go? My college is **** busy (finding a table is like winning the lottery) and so I could find myself wandering. This is an issue as I find walking through the same corridor twice in a small space of time makes me paranoid as heck. If I could nail these issues I'm sure I'd be okay, but otherwise I know my negative emotions will detriment my work, and I am aiming for A's, so I haven't much room for mistake. I am not prepared to make a new friendship group for just 1 year, though.
So, for those who have had / are having similar experiences, how did / do you combat loneliness in college/school/university/whatever? What did you do to burn your free time? Any thoughts or feelings on the topic would be great and I'd love to hear about peoples experiences with this kind of stuff.
tl;dr: No friends at college, feel lonely, don't want to get depressed again, what to do / where to go in free time?