NoGameNoPlay
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Where can i meet people ,and become friends with them ? No one gives me a chance.
jaguarundi said:Start here, and work your way up?
NoGameNoPlay said:Where can i meet people ,and become friends with them ? No one gives me a chance.
NoGameNoPlay said:Where can i meet people ,and become friends with them ? No one gives me a chance.
NoGameNoPlay said:Where can i meet people ,and become friends with them ? No one gives me a chance.
Regumika said:This makes me wonder about relationships too. The traditional way is that females wait for males to ask them out. How many females actually go out to find males instead of waiting for males to show interest in them, then picking one out of all the ones interested?
Wanderer145 said:Regumika said:This makes me wonder about relationships too. The traditional way is that females wait for males to ask them out. How many females actually go out to find males instead of waiting for males to show interest in them, then picking one out of all the ones interested?
Very very few women have the courage to make the first move. We're talking less than 20% here. It is almost always the males that have to approach and burden the fear of rejection. It's just how the world works.
As for shy people it is tough for them but at the same time they need the courage to talk to people otherwise they'll miss out on life's opportunities. Whether it is voluntary or a real deep rooted problem, breaking out of shyness allows you to see the world in a different light. It's self confidence its a beautiful thing.
TheRealCallie said:Personally, the whole deal about women not asking men out isn't much different than shy people not talking to others. I never really understood why it's so taboo for a female to make the first move. If you want something, go get it, why wait for it to come to you?
Shy people can gain confidence slowly. Say hi to people. Do it everywhere. Just a simple hi to a complete stranger. Takes one second and you're on your way. When you feel more confident, take it a step further and ask them how they are or compliment them on something. No excuses, just do it. As you continue to do it, it will get easier.
TheRealCallie said:I'm not, in any way, shy, but I do have anxiety issues.
TheRealCallie said:An introduction (that will lead to a conversation) to a complete stranger and easier than simply saying hello as you pass by someone? I'm not sure how that's easier. Yes, there's someone there that you know, but you are being thrown into a full fledged conversation with someone you don't know.
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