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Sad-Joe

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I designed a series of questions to see the seriousness of our situation.

PS: sorry for my bad english, i' m italian.




-my day: school watching TV, computer, PS3.
-weekends: TV, computer and PS3 as always
-holiday: travel out of my country (only in summer) and a TV, computer and PS3

how long you live in loneliness? Since I was 14 years old.

How many friends do you have? none, 0

Have you ever had friends or a girl? up to 14 years.

you have some passion \ hobby? I write aphorisms, but it is not a passion

you're sad because of loneliness or another? I'm sad for the lonely

Have you ever thought about suicide? yes
 
Your English is far, far better than my Italian. I can only say 'Non capsico' 'Mi chiamo Tiina' and 'Non lo so' in your language, so don't knock yourself. (And probably I got some of the words wrong as well.)
In answer to your questions:
1. All of my adult life so far.
2. 6.
3. My last relationship was ten years ago.
4. Passions-the Finnish language, North Korea (watching DVDs and reading about the country), reading.
5. Yes, many. many times.
 
Sad-Joe said:
I designed a series of questions to see the seriousness of our situation.

PS: sorry for my bad english, i' m italian.




-my day: school watching TV, computer, PS3.
-weekends: TV, computer and PS3 as always
-holiday: travel out of my country (only in summer) and a TV, computer and PS3

how long you live in loneliness? Since I was 14 years old.

How many friends do you have? none, 0

Have you ever had friends or a girl? up to 14 years.

you have some passion \ hobby? I write aphorisms, but it is not a passion

you're sad because of loneliness or another? I'm sad for the lonely

Have you ever thought about suicide? yes

The questionaire seems serious enough. I don't know what you're trying to achieve but it looks like you're probably doing something good.

"how long you live in loneliness?" - Quite a long time. Hard to count, I'd say before I was 10 years old? Probably since I was 6. I'm 25 presently.


"How many friends do you have?" Recently it's peaked quite sharply. I'd say about four. Usually it's either one or no friends.

"Have you ever had friends or a girl?" In terms of friends I usually don't have many (1 is the average). No girl nor girlfriend.

"you have some passion \ hobby?" Programming. Investigating and exploring. But most things are just dead to me.

"Have you ever thought about suicide?" Yes. Frequently. Since I was about 11 or 12.
 
1. About three years

2. None

3. Haha, no way

4. Music

5. Never, no, I value life
 
how long you live in loneliness? - Most of my life really (I'm 38). As a young child it wasn't so much a problem, on and off at times it was though, but it only really started to get serious at about 11 or 12.

How many friends do you have? - None around where I live. Only 1 person online that I would consider a friend.

Have you ever had friends or a girl? - Never had friends where I live. 3 girlfriends I guess (1 IRL, 2 online) but none of them were honest about it ...

you have some passion\hobby? - Have plenty of hobbies. Sometimes it feels like too many tbh. But can't say I have a 'passion' though.

you're sad because of loneliness or another? - The loneliness is the major factor for the sadness I feel, yeah.

Have you ever thought about suicide? - Yes. It sort of lurks in the background, a sometimes distant reminder of maybe the only way to stop feeling this.
 
How long you live in loneliness?
For nearly five years, after finishing High School.

How many friends do you have?
Real life = None; Online = Two.

Have you ever had friends or a girl?
I’m not sure if they count as friends, but I was part of a group that belonged to the school’s speech therapist;
we got along pretty well, but never saw each other outside of the sessions. I’ve never had a girlfriend.

You have some passion/hobby?
Researching about various topics and writing.

You’re sad because of loneliness or another?
Mostly because of self-hate, but loneliness does count too.

Have you ever thought about suicide?
Only once.
 
How long you live in loneliness?
This month it will be 5 years

How many friends do you have?
No real friends

Have you ever had friends or a girl?
I had a girlfriend once, for a year and a half. I don't think she ever truly loved me.

You have some passion/hobby?
Gaming and following Formula 1

You’re sad because of loneliness or another?
Loneliness

Have you ever thought about suicide?
I've wished I could just die (being Christian I believe I know where I'm going when that happens) but I've never thought of doing it myself. Wouldn't have the guts.
 
how long you live in loneliness? Birth

How many friends do you have? none

Have you ever had friends or a girl? No

you have some passion \ hobby? Playing guitar, listening to music, writing poetry.

you're sad because of loneliness or another? Idk

Have you ever thought about suicide? Yes, everyday, I think I'm going to do it soon.
 
"how long you live in loneliness?" Since December 2011, although now I'm starting to feel like less I'm living in loneliness & more like I'm living in comfortable seclusion.

"How many friends do you have?" Three. Two are long-time online friends, one is someone I tentatively call a friend who I still occasionally talk to.

"Have you ever had friends or a girl?" Yes.

"you have some passion \ hobby?" Knowledge & logic are my passions and I have many hobbies.

"you're sad because of loneliness or another?" I'm not particularly sad, but what sadness I do feel is caused by my anxiety.

"Have you ever thought about suicide?" Yes.
 
how long you live in loneliness? About 2 and a half years since living alone after my last break up. I've also felt lonely in my childhood, teen and young adult years.

How many friends do you have? 3

Have you ever had friends or a girl? I've had girl friends.

you have some passion \ hobby? Hobbies: Being a tourist, bike riding, foreign languages, singing, karaoke

you're sad because of loneliness or another? Sad because loneliness is difficult to bear.

Have you ever thought about suicide? I've thought about it yes but I don't want to. I want to be happy.
 
how long you live in loneliness? Since I was 14

How many friends do you have? 3, they are the closest i have to friends.

Have you ever had friends or a girl? yes

you have some passion \ hobby? Music lover, I love listening to music and play several instruments myself.

you're sad because of loneliness or another? Sad because i'm lonely, because of my personality, and i regret a lot of things that I've done.

Have you ever thought about suicide? yes
 
my day: breakfast, college classes, cycling, lunch, study, anime, lunch, study, sleep
weekends: breakfast, cycling, lunch, study, anime, dinner, study, sleep
holiday: travel out of my country (only in summer) and a TV, computer and PS3

how long you live in loneliness? 12-14 (don't recall when)

How many friends do you have? 2

Have you ever had friends or a girl? 1 female friend

you have some passion \ hobby? Road cycling and watching animes

you're sad because of loneliness or another? Just lonely and a bit sad.

Have you ever thought about suicide? No
 
How long?

On and off for most of my life, depending on where I'm living and what type of things I'm currently dealing with.

How many friends?

Three that I would call friends.

You have some passion\hobby?

Music, writing, nature, and subcultures.

Sad because of loneliness or another?

I'm not sad. I am lonely because I don't have many friends and have some LGBTQ identity struggles I can't find anyone else facing, though. I also spend the majority of my time alone.

Have you ever thought about suicide?

Yes, because I didn't know how to survive as I am. I still don't, but I don't think that's the correct solution.
 
how long you live in loneliness? I grew up isolated from my siblings and have never had family time so pretty much all my life.

How many friends do you have? None

Have you ever had friends or a girl? I used to hang out with a group of outcasts when I was a teenager but no real friends. I have been married, now divorced and have had girlfriends though.

you have some passion \ hobby? Traveling, volunteering, photography and journalism.

you're sad because of loneliness or another? loneliness but also a mild form of ADHD keeps me feeling confused and lost.

Have you ever thought about suicide? Yes on occasions.
 
how long you live in loneliness?

No idea really, I used to be an island, being alone has never bothered me, I would say in the last couple of years or so is when I have started feeling it

How many friends do you have?

I have and had a fair few acquaintances, but genuine friends... a couple, but even they feel very distant lately.

Have you ever had friends or a girl?

Yes, as I said above, a girl, once, last year, lasted nearly 2 months, she ended things because it was meant to be a fling apparently, only wanted a bit of casual fun - yet showed me all the affection and care of someone wanting a relationship, and we didn't do that one physical thing casual partners do, figure that one out (i to this day just over a year later think its more complicated than she just wanted a fling)... and yet somehow she is now one of the 2 close friends I have.

you have some passion \ hobby?

I skate, play guitar, do kung fu, play video games, try to learn things about the world and myself, my passion was skating, but its took a backseat since kung fu started.

you're sad because of loneliness or another?

I am sad because of loneliness, lonely because I have only a couple of friends, both of whom like I said aren't there as much anymore and I am sad because I am a 27 year old man, who wakes up alone in the mornings


Have you ever thought about suicide?

I have never considered it myself no, I would never do that. But I have dwelled on what makes people consider it
 
Lone Apothecary said:
"how long you live in loneliness?" Since December 2011, although now I'm starting to feel like less I'm living in loneliness & more like I'm living in comfortable seclusion.

"How many friends do you have?" Three. Two are long-time online friends, one is someone I tentatively call a friend who I still occasionally talk to.

"Have you ever had friends or a girl?" Yes.

"you have some passion \ hobby?" Knowledge & logic are my passions and I have many hobbies.

"you're sad because of loneliness or another?" I'm not particularly sad, but what sadness I do feel is caused by my anxiety.

"Have you ever thought about suicide?" Yes.

Me and you are similar your just probably far more advanced then me right now.
 
RE: QUESTIONNAIRE FOR LONELY PEOPLE
how long you live in loneliness? On and off all my life

How many friends do you have?

depends on the definition: acquaintances from whom I can borrow a printer or get hospitality for a night, tons, people who would be sad if I die, maybe two or three, and none where I currently live

Have you ever had friends or a girl?

Only some abusive/disturbed boyfriends, never experienced normal "love"

you have some passion \

playing/singing, art and design, entrepreneurial projects, nature and animals, I guess learning - and people, I just love listening to stories from people

you're sad because of loneliness or another? Not sure, for some periods I wasn't lonely and I was kind of happy I think -


Have you ever thought about suicide? Several times
 
Sad-Joe said:
I designed a series of questions to see the seriousness of our situation.

PS: sorry for my bad english, i' m italian.




-my day: school watching TV, computer, PS3.
-weekends: TV, computer and PS3 as always
-holiday: travel out of my country (only in summer) and a TV, computer and PS3

how long you live in loneliness? Since I was 14 years old.

How many friends do you have? none, 0

Have you ever had friends or a girl? up to 14 years.

you have some passion \ hobby? I write aphorisms, but it is not a passion

you're sad because of loneliness or another? I'm sad for the lonely

Have you ever thought about suicide? yes

How long have you lived in loneliness? About 2 weeks new to being alone,getting used to it fast have good family but no friends. Ps I'm 18

How many friends do you have? 0

Have you ever had a girl or friends? Yes I have had sex 2 twice that's the only reason I haven't killed my self. I had best friend but we no longer friends, I don't except anything but death loyalties. That's why I don't have friends.

Do you have any passions? Yes learning knowledge self improvement,that's what I live for and how I deal with life

Your sad because of loneliness or another? I'm not sad at all I enjoy being alone,but i also like people and do want friends.

Have you ever thought about killing your self? Yes the first week of being alone now I love it

Do you have big penis? Not really lol I only had sex,but I also took Viagra miracle drug

Do you have social anxiety? Yes I take xanax to fix it it really does work
 

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