Do some individuals wear their loneliness proudly on their sleeves, almost to the point of "bragging' about it? Do they believe that their "loner status" proves something about themselves? You know, the old "well it is just that everyone else these days is so shallow / stupid / materialistic / cruel /selfish/immature, and I am not. That is why I don't have any friends, etc." rationale.
Courtesy of Dr. Wirth: "Some lonely and socially awkward people are really insecure and self-effacing and feel like they're detestable nobodies. I've noticed a tendency for other people to have a different attitude, where they see themselves as a bit above everyone else. There are two sides to this mentality. One is thinking there's something about you that makes you superior to other people. You think you're smarter, deeper, different, or that you have more evolved beliefs and priorities than them. The other side is seeing everyone else as having a bunch of negative traits, that they're dumb, immature, sex-obsessed, shallow, and selfish. The result is you feel like you can't relate to other people, that you're cut off from them, and like you're misunderstood and forced to walk your own lonely path through life. People of this view often look down upon certain aspects of popular culture (such as reality tv, celebrity gossip, the excessive consumption of alcohol, and hyper-promiscuity/hookup/party culture), viewing themselves as both apart from AND ABOVE individuals who regularly engage in said activities. This type of loner often views himself or herself as a brilliant/cultured/highly-evolved martyr, unfairly victimized by an indifferent, shallow, sex-obsessed and materialistic society. They often arrive at the point where they seem to take joy in playing the role of martyr, freely sharing their "loner exploits" with anyone who will listen."
Courtesy of Dr. Wirth: "Some lonely and socially awkward people are really insecure and self-effacing and feel like they're detestable nobodies. I've noticed a tendency for other people to have a different attitude, where they see themselves as a bit above everyone else. There are two sides to this mentality. One is thinking there's something about you that makes you superior to other people. You think you're smarter, deeper, different, or that you have more evolved beliefs and priorities than them. The other side is seeing everyone else as having a bunch of negative traits, that they're dumb, immature, sex-obsessed, shallow, and selfish. The result is you feel like you can't relate to other people, that you're cut off from them, and like you're misunderstood and forced to walk your own lonely path through life. People of this view often look down upon certain aspects of popular culture (such as reality tv, celebrity gossip, the excessive consumption of alcohol, and hyper-promiscuity/hookup/party culture), viewing themselves as both apart from AND ABOVE individuals who regularly engage in said activities. This type of loner often views himself or herself as a brilliant/cultured/highly-evolved martyr, unfairly victimized by an indifferent, shallow, sex-obsessed and materialistic society. They often arrive at the point where they seem to take joy in playing the role of martyr, freely sharing their "loner exploits" with anyone who will listen."