Dear-_-Tragedy
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So once again my eyes have met with another beauty. I feel energised and happy to feel passion again...I thought I left all that behind! Our eyes met several times and she smiled. Oh man her smile, my heart was like :club:
I feel confident with my chances this time. Although I can't help feel in the back of my mind "not gonna happen" or "she ain't interested". These inner thoughts aren't entirely unjustified either; I really have no clue how to get with girls, it just sort of happened in the past with little effort on my part, just being myself. And no, she isn't out of my league, I've pulled some lookers in my time. My question is how do I get past those self defeating thoughts
, and how do I even begin to 'win her over'?
To elaborate, she is in one of my classes at uni, once a week and only for the first semester (unless by chance she is in a same class in semester 2). This is also my final year so the long game may not suffice here. I hate using terms like 'win her over' and 'the long game' but I am frankly still thinking of her smile to come up with better synonyms.
This feels different too, I want to do it right this time. This new found passion is precious to me and I don't want to look back thinking 'I wish I tried'. I've felt really happy these last months and come to terms with loving myself and my life; I have concrete plans and ambitions and know I will succeed in life eventually. When I saw her, I just started thinking I wanted someone to share such a good life with.
I would really appreciate some sort of step by step of things to do to help me, some good advice, you know?
I feel confident with my chances this time. Although I can't help feel in the back of my mind "not gonna happen" or "she ain't interested". These inner thoughts aren't entirely unjustified either; I really have no clue how to get with girls, it just sort of happened in the past with little effort on my part, just being myself. And no, she isn't out of my league, I've pulled some lookers in my time. My question is how do I get past those self defeating thoughts
, and how do I even begin to 'win her over'? To elaborate, she is in one of my classes at uni, once a week and only for the first semester (unless by chance she is in a same class in semester 2). This is also my final year so the long game may not suffice here. I hate using terms like 'win her over' and 'the long game' but I am frankly still thinking of her smile to come up with better synonyms.
This feels different too, I want to do it right this time. This new found passion is precious to me and I don't want to look back thinking 'I wish I tried'. I've felt really happy these last months and come to terms with loving myself and my life; I have concrete plans and ambitions and know I will succeed in life eventually. When I saw her, I just started thinking I wanted someone to share such a good life with.
I would really appreciate some sort of step by step of things to do to help me, some good advice, you know?
