HappyYogi
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Just wanted to share an idea I learned in one of my spiritual books that helped me a lot.
The message is "if someone is not receptive to you, rejects you or ignores you, it means they are not open to your energy". I am paraphrasing here but that is the jist.
This really helped me sooo much! I decided to pay attention to those who were and those who were not open to my energy. I am always nice, of course, but I decided if I am going to give any relationship energy, I am going to give it to those who are "open" to me.
What a difference it makes! If they are open to your energy they are more likely to respond back in kindness and interest. Showing interest to someone who is not open to you is a waste of time. For whatever reason, their own personal biases, wants or needs, they are just not interested. Most of the time it is not personal! Most of the time it's about them.
I highly recommend this book for they have whole chapters on this. It's called "Personal Power Through Awareness" by Sanaya Roman.
Some of the tidbits (I'd love to type the whole thing but I cannot).
"Do not make you or the other person wrong"
"You cannot have a healing connection if you see yourself as wrong or lacking"
"If you are feeling bad about a relationship, say to yourself 'I am perfect as I am'"
When with another, ask yourself "Do I feel good? Do I feel high? or am I feeling inadequate?" There is absolutely no reason to be around anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself.
If you feel depreciated and angry, that person may not value you.
"As you heal and change the drama within yourself, you will find that you do not attract those types of interactions anymore".
"There is no reason to put yourself in a situation where you feel depreciated, unloved and undervalued".
"Loving someone does not mean making their feelings more important than your own."
*****"When you are feeling depreciated, angry, or drained it is a sign that other people are not open to your energy".
Anyways, just giving my attention to those who are open to me has changed my life and made relationships easier. They are the easiest people with whom to be friends with. Don't throw your pearls to swine.
The message is "if someone is not receptive to you, rejects you or ignores you, it means they are not open to your energy". I am paraphrasing here but that is the jist.
This really helped me sooo much! I decided to pay attention to those who were and those who were not open to my energy. I am always nice, of course, but I decided if I am going to give any relationship energy, I am going to give it to those who are "open" to me.
What a difference it makes! If they are open to your energy they are more likely to respond back in kindness and interest. Showing interest to someone who is not open to you is a waste of time. For whatever reason, their own personal biases, wants or needs, they are just not interested. Most of the time it is not personal! Most of the time it's about them.
I highly recommend this book for they have whole chapters on this. It's called "Personal Power Through Awareness" by Sanaya Roman.
Some of the tidbits (I'd love to type the whole thing but I cannot).
"Do not make you or the other person wrong"
"You cannot have a healing connection if you see yourself as wrong or lacking"
"If you are feeling bad about a relationship, say to yourself 'I am perfect as I am'"
When with another, ask yourself "Do I feel good? Do I feel high? or am I feeling inadequate?" There is absolutely no reason to be around anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself.
If you feel depreciated and angry, that person may not value you.
"As you heal and change the drama within yourself, you will find that you do not attract those types of interactions anymore".
"There is no reason to put yourself in a situation where you feel depreciated, unloved and undervalued".
"Loving someone does not mean making their feelings more important than your own."
*****"When you are feeling depreciated, angry, or drained it is a sign that other people are not open to your energy".
Anyways, just giving my attention to those who are open to me has changed my life and made relationships easier. They are the easiest people with whom to be friends with. Don't throw your pearls to swine.