Hello everyone.
First of all, a summary. This is a post which aims to help you broaden your views on loneliness, and directly or indirectly overcome it. This is also, a discussion post, your opinion, as well aseveryone's opinion, no matter how different or opposing is appreciated and welcome, as long as you respect the opinions of others.
Right, so, to start with, loneliness is absolutely normal today, at any intensity and situation. It's a feeling, a function of your body and brain, don't feel bad or unnatural for being lonely!
Loneliness is a Survival mechanism. It's your primal brain configuration telling you that you need more people close to you. However, today, you don't really need people close to you to survive. In fact, having people close to you may burden a greater hazard, especially when you depend on their company. Not all people are to be trusted, but you cannot know who you can trust. You can only know who you can't trust and you only find that out when it's too late.
So, loneliness is a thing about you, it only shows that you
either just have yet to find people compatiblewith you, or that you need a companionship so close that it's just not possible to find today. Again, all people with all traces, famous,rich, poor, black, white are all worth the same. We are all but a bag of organs placed in a skeleton of bones and wrapped in flesh.
As an alternative, if it is hard to not be lonely, try getting used to i, embracing it. Loneliness may be a result of something you can't change or do something about. It is better to be lonely, rather than to chase others for a friendship, which only you contribute to.
Be proud. A healthy dose of narrow minded ego makes wonders in this case. Loneliness also has its advantages. You can't argue and stop being friends with someone and be hurt by that If you don't depend on anyone's friendship. People who were never lonely will have a harder time when that happens. Also, you have peace and tranquility when alone, try to appreciate that.
Right, that is all from me. Really looking forward to getting feedback with your opinions.
Cheers!
First of all, a summary. This is a post which aims to help you broaden your views on loneliness, and directly or indirectly overcome it. This is also, a discussion post, your opinion, as well aseveryone's opinion, no matter how different or opposing is appreciated and welcome, as long as you respect the opinions of others.
Right, so, to start with, loneliness is absolutely normal today, at any intensity and situation. It's a feeling, a function of your body and brain, don't feel bad or unnatural for being lonely!
Loneliness is a Survival mechanism. It's your primal brain configuration telling you that you need more people close to you. However, today, you don't really need people close to you to survive. In fact, having people close to you may burden a greater hazard, especially when you depend on their company. Not all people are to be trusted, but you cannot know who you can trust. You can only know who you can't trust and you only find that out when it's too late.
So, loneliness is a thing about you, it only shows that you
either just have yet to find people compatiblewith you, or that you need a companionship so close that it's just not possible to find today. Again, all people with all traces, famous,rich, poor, black, white are all worth the same. We are all but a bag of organs placed in a skeleton of bones and wrapped in flesh.
As an alternative, if it is hard to not be lonely, try getting used to i, embracing it. Loneliness may be a result of something you can't change or do something about. It is better to be lonely, rather than to chase others for a friendship, which only you contribute to.
Be proud. A healthy dose of narrow minded ego makes wonders in this case. Loneliness also has its advantages. You can't argue and stop being friends with someone and be hurt by that If you don't depend on anyone's friendship. People who were never lonely will have a harder time when that happens. Also, you have peace and tranquility when alone, try to appreciate that.
Right, that is all from me. Really looking forward to getting feedback with your opinions.
Cheers!