Hey all, it's been well over 4 months since I last posted on here, I often just lurk when I'm browsing on here.
So last Sunday, I hung out and got some drinks with my so called "friends". They were the ones that called me. I agreed since I was just sitting around watching tv. This was the first time in well over a month I actually hung out with someone.
There was two of them btw, and as we left a bar we all wanted to get something to eat. As we were driving, they both began to tell me they wanted to hang out more. I said yeah we'll have to do something next weekend as I got dropped off home.
Fast forward to this weekend, I shot both of them a text. One responded once, and the other nothing whatsoever. talking to them last weekend I asked them what they've been up to since I've haven't seen them in awhile. Both said not much. So that gets me thinking, why would you tell someone you want to hang out with them more just to stiff them if the long run.
Btw, the only reason I went out last weekend was because they called me, that whole month before that I tried multiple times over the countless weekends to try and make plans. At this point I'm done trying to make an effort with people I always used to hang around just to be let down. I'm done being an option when they make other people a priority to hang out with.
Maybe I'm just overreacting but I'm sick of this lonely life sitting around watching tv playing xbox. I want to make new friends but don't know how to go about doing so. Sorry if my post is long and hard to understand.
So last Sunday, I hung out and got some drinks with my so called "friends". They were the ones that called me. I agreed since I was just sitting around watching tv. This was the first time in well over a month I actually hung out with someone.
There was two of them btw, and as we left a bar we all wanted to get something to eat. As we were driving, they both began to tell me they wanted to hang out more. I said yeah we'll have to do something next weekend as I got dropped off home.
Fast forward to this weekend, I shot both of them a text. One responded once, and the other nothing whatsoever. talking to them last weekend I asked them what they've been up to since I've haven't seen them in awhile. Both said not much. So that gets me thinking, why would you tell someone you want to hang out with them more just to stiff them if the long run.
Btw, the only reason I went out last weekend was because they called me, that whole month before that I tried multiple times over the countless weekends to try and make plans. At this point I'm done trying to make an effort with people I always used to hang around just to be let down. I'm done being an option when they make other people a priority to hang out with.
Maybe I'm just overreacting but I'm sick of this lonely life sitting around watching tv playing xbox. I want to make new friends but don't know how to go about doing so. Sorry if my post is long and hard to understand.