It's easy for people to relate to me/side with me if I get annoyed with people I don't like for doing or saying things that offend me.
But it can be a worse situation for interacting with people you like, because you think you can't compare to how well they relate their own experiences in a thought-provoking way, and at the same time are able to create a comfortable atmosphere for conversation. And I want to be able to do the same, but I'm worried that I'll be too deep and they won't know how to relate to me and I'll seem too serious. (Because I've related topics that are personal to me to someone and I think my seriousness made it uncomfortable). I think of bringing up the surface thoughts that I think I'm saying things that are making them uncomfortable, but I can't imagine even mentioning the issue without my mentioning being uncomfortable in itself. I'm not overthinking. I can really imagine how the situation will pan out, and it will turn out exactly this way. I tend to think before I say something, and most times I have a thought in mind that I don't always think to translate into words.
But it can be a worse situation for interacting with people you like, because you think you can't compare to how well they relate their own experiences in a thought-provoking way, and at the same time are able to create a comfortable atmosphere for conversation. And I want to be able to do the same, but I'm worried that I'll be too deep and they won't know how to relate to me and I'll seem too serious. (Because I've related topics that are personal to me to someone and I think my seriousness made it uncomfortable). I think of bringing up the surface thoughts that I think I'm saying things that are making them uncomfortable, but I can't imagine even mentioning the issue without my mentioning being uncomfortable in itself. I'm not overthinking. I can really imagine how the situation will pan out, and it will turn out exactly this way. I tend to think before I say something, and most times I have a thought in mind that I don't always think to translate into words.