kuro
Well-known member
in the last three years or so I have been at my loneliest. The very few friends that I have don't seem to get back to me when I suggest to meet up and haven't talked not even text (have actually met up on two occasions where I hardly talked and those friends met each other without me). I don't feel close to those friends anymore and feel like I cannot talk to them freely, even though one of them I've known nearly twelve years. I then realised maybe I need new friends.
I have used meetup.com, an app and a website to try and make new friends, which have been challenging for me. Meetup.com has been the most successful but only in terms of meeting new people, but not making friends. The app and site haven't been that great, because the women who seem interested but stop talking to me. It gets me down that no one wants to be my friend. I know it can't be forced etc. but I guess I seem to get my hopes up when someone shows interest.
There have been a couple of times where I've met people on dating sites (which I used, but not excusively for dating) where we have got on so well and when parting they have said see you soon. I actually took it literally and thought they are interested in meeting again, which wasn't the case.
Now that I have boyfriend I spend some time with him but not all the time and when I'm not with him feel lonely, not just the fact I'm spending time with him but that I don't have friends that I can spend time with.
I'm still trying and hope I'll eventually find a friend.
Sorry, if what I typed didn't make sense.
I have used meetup.com, an app and a website to try and make new friends, which have been challenging for me. Meetup.com has been the most successful but only in terms of meeting new people, but not making friends. The app and site haven't been that great, because the women who seem interested but stop talking to me. It gets me down that no one wants to be my friend. I know it can't be forced etc. but I guess I seem to get my hopes up when someone shows interest.
There have been a couple of times where I've met people on dating sites (which I used, but not excusively for dating) where we have got on so well and when parting they have said see you soon. I actually took it literally and thought they are interested in meeting again, which wasn't the case.
Now that I have boyfriend I spend some time with him but not all the time and when I'm not with him feel lonely, not just the fact I'm spending time with him but that I don't have friends that I can spend time with.
I'm still trying and hope I'll eventually find a friend.
Sorry, if what I typed didn't make sense.