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A Question for the Guys...
01-20-2009, 05:55 AM
Post: #1
A Question for the Guys...
I was reading Liapos' thread about a question to us ladies on why women cheat.... And another question arose in me... Something I've always had in the back of my mind...

Why do men pick cheating whores?

No, not the woman that would never do that to you... Not the woman who would treat you with respect...

Men pick the girls that are just plain no good. I don't get it. And then, that gives the rest of us decent women a bad name.


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01-20-2009, 06:00 AM
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RE: A Question for the Guys...
VanillaCreme Wrote:I was reading Liapos' thread about a question to us ladies on why women cheat.... And another question arose in me... Something I've always had in the back of my mind...

Why do men pick cheating whores?

No, not the woman that would never do that to you... Not the woman who would treat you with respect...

Men pick the girls that are just plain no good. I don't get it. And then, that gives the rest of us decent women a bad name.

i agree!! All the men i have been with have got rid of me to be with a filthy infected whore. What on earth is it all about? is that the sort of girl you guy wanna end up with and settle down with? Should i start sleeping round like them and be a slut too, is that what i have to do in order for guys to wanna be with me?
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01-20-2009, 08:14 AM
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RE: A Question for the Guys...
Sex.

Now, it is more complicated than just that, but it is a major factor. If a woman is giving off signals his brain interprets as "hey, lets go to bed" then a man will often find that attractive, without even considering the full ramifications involved.

No, not all men are this shallow, but many are.

In general however, most men are repulsed by the idea of promiscuity in a prospective relationship. Essentially, there is a massive contradiction between what most men want, and what most men need.

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01-20-2009, 09:48 AM
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RE: A Question for the Guys...
stella Wrote:i agree!! All the men i have been with have got rid of me to be with a filthy infected whore. What on earth is it all about? is that the sort of girl you guy wanna end up with and settle down with? Should i start sleeping round like them and be a slut too, is that what i have to do in order for guys to wanna be with me?

I thought of that idea... But then, I said to myself, "Self, don't lower yourself to that standard. And don't put yourself so low on the totem pole that you couldn't get back up." I'd rather be alone than to be a skank sleeping around with random men just feel satisfied or justified.

Steel Wrote:In general however, most men are repulsed by the idea of promiscuity in a prospective relationship. Essentially, there is a massive contradiction between what most men want, and what most men need.

Repulsed, but most men do it anyway... Explain that. Men are just as confused as women. Men are afraid of committed relationships, yet they are lost when they aren't in one. Repulsed by whores, yet, look to them to be with.

I don't get it.
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01-20-2009, 10:03 AM
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RE: A Question for the Guys...
Only weak minded men cheat on their girlfriend/wife. Being drunk is no excuse

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01-20-2009, 10:25 AM
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RE: A Question for the Guys...
VanillaCreme Wrote:Repulsed, but most men do it anyway... Explain that. Men are just as confused as women. Men are afraid of committed relationships, yet they are lost when they aren't in one. Repulsed by whores, yet, look to them to be with.

I don't get it.


Saying most men are cheats is quite a radical exaggeration and a quite insulting generalisation to be honest. The same goes for the other way around.

Some men afraid of commitment but lost when not with someone? Men are stupid. And yes, women are stupid. Human beings are stupid. Or maybe just very complex.


Also, to link this back to the other thread; geniune or 'nice' guys are considered boring therefore not worth some women's time, yet guys who cheat (arseholes) are the ones they seem to find attractive and willing to get into relationships with in the first place.

I don't get it.
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01-20-2009, 11:57 AM
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RE: A Question for the Guys...
Scott Wrote:
VanillaCreme Wrote:Repulsed, but most men do it anyway... Explain that. Men are just as confused as women. Men are afraid of committed relationships, yet they are lost when they aren't in one. Repulsed by whores, yet, look to them to be with.

I don't get it.


Saying most men are cheats is quite a radical exaggeration and a quite insulting generalisation to be honest. The same goes for the other way around.

Some men afraid of commitment but lost when not with someone? Men are stupid. And yes, women are stupid. Human beings are stupid. Or maybe just very complex.


Also, to link this back to the other thread; geniune or 'nice' guys are considered boring therefore not worth some women's time, yet guys who cheat (arseholes) are the ones they seem to find attractive and willing to get into relationships with in the first place.

I don't get it.

Ah, I do see your point. Maybe when some more people reply to each thread, we'll have more diverse answers or explanations as to why it happens, and what goes through people's minds.
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01-20-2009, 12:27 PM
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RE: A Question for the Guys...
Has any of You guys actually cheated? If not, i don't think Your input is worth that much.
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01-20-2009, 01:54 PM
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Robin Wrote:Has any of You guys actually cheated? If not, i don't think Your input is worth that much.

What about those of us who have been cheated on? Our opinions and emotions matter too. We know how we felt, and how we didn't like it.
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01-20-2009, 02:47 PM
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VanillaCreme Wrote:What about those of us who have been cheated on? Our opinions and emotions matter too. We know how we felt, and how we didn't like it.

Of course it does! I just meant the question (and the men who replied to this thread); why men pick whores to cheat with. The feelings of those who were cheated on has nothing to do with the answer to it.

I have read what men who have cheated say about this. To make it short; they find their partners to not be sexually active enough. Which probably is because most women need alot more love and care to get aroused than men do.

All i know is that men are supposed to have sex quite often, and if the woman in a couple doesn't want to, due to many different reasons of course, like stress, there is going to be a problem. I think birth-control pills are a bigger part of women's lack of lust than most people think. My ex had that problem, big-time, as well as other women i know. Being a young guy with lots of testoterone, it's quite a hell to live with a women who's only willing once a month. And no, i did NOT cheat.


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