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For many years I could never get a girlfriend. I was what you might term involuntarily celebate. As a result of this I would turn to porn for masterbation purposes as many men do.

This can cause a significant problem for men if they eventually find a partner. The problem is that chronic masterbation to porn desensitizes your penis. When you become used to the fast and the furious, the real thing actually won't feel as good as it should. Many people think that men who have never had sex, or have hardly had any sex won't last very long in bed. This is not true however for many chronic masterbaters. You may have trouble achieving orgasm at all with your partner, which can cause frustration for both people.

The good news is that you can re-sensitize your penis. To do this you must decrease how often you masterbate. Try to quit cold turkey. You may begin to notice pain in your testicles. If you start feeling pain, go ahead and masterbate. You don't want to ignore the pain as it will get paralyzingly worse, however try to only do it if you have to. Eventually you can quit masterbation all together without pain. It takes some time and may be different for different men.

You will notice a few changes. First, when you urinate you may notice "pressure" problems. This will only be temporary as your penis adjusts to the differences. You will also notice that you're sensitivity increases tremendously. It is possible to increase your sensitivity too much, which could cause you to not be able to last very long in bed with your partner. To build up a tolerance, increase masterbation. There is a balance you can find to last the perfect amount of time in bed.

You will also notice a larger, firmer erection. This will take a few weeks to notice, but is definately one of the best results of re-sensitizing your penis.

Masterbation is a great tool for men to learn how their penis works and to get to the best sensitivity level for love-making. I hope this helps.

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Errr..wtf Jess????

It's better when she jacks you off...An experince woman will know how to get you
hard again and again.

It takes longer for women to get aroused..ya gatta fool around with them and make
out with them. Ya gatta romance them...like take them dancing.
Watch how she moves her body when she dance...if she can dance she can fresia.

This is what you do dude after you cum..don't fall asleep.lol.
Go down on her and eat her out for like 15 mins...It'll drive her fucken crazy and probably
gives her multiple orgasim. After 15 mins of that she'll really, really whats you to give it to her.
By then you'll be able to get another eraction again...if you need assistance, I'm pretty sure
she'll find a way to get you hard again.
Plus if you eat her out and lick up all her cum...she'll probably swallow your too.
Eat something sweet...beside her.lol. such as mints, honey, or pineapple...
Stay away from salsa, cheese..becuase it'll taste bitter to her.
See.. you can't make her feel like it's a dirty thing...becuase she'll probably wanna kiss
ya right after she swallowed...That's how she'll test ya. You'll gain her turst if you kiss her
becuase she actaully likes it more than you think and don't wanna be judge. It's still a trust and bonding thing....

If that dosn't work or you get tired of that...what you do is fresia her on the hood of the car in a pubilc place. Kind of secluded though....never the less it gets the hydarent pumping...becuase she's being a bad..bad...bad girl. and she'll tell ya to give her a spanking...
It's totally different when you spank her then you spank youself.lol

If you hold her after sex...she'll bond with you even more. Just don't roll over and fall asleep.lol
Tell her to keep you awake for 10-15 mins
If you gently run your fingers up and down her body..it'll stimulate other parts of her body..
You don't even have to have sex with her for a couple of days and she'll have an orgasim and cream in her panties if you just touch her, talk to her or just make out with her. ya gatta have patience, romance her and let her desire build up...bascailly she'll tackle your ass and can't keep her hands off of ya...
hahahhaha...then you'll have hard core and steamy sex with her for 3-4 hours or all night...
which of course...you'll be really, really sore and don't want your penis to be touched by anyone
for a couple of days.lmao So in actaul reality...romancing her , having intellectual conversations
with her or just hanging out with is just a cover of you not wanting to have sex or giving your
penis a rest:p

Of course..you can always find a nympho for a GF. You won't have time to masturbate.lmao
 
Hmmm...well, I'm not a chronic masturbator, but I've never had problems with sensetivity (either way). I believe that there's no SET speed to have sex, and ejaculation IS NOT the definite "end" of a sexual encounter. A few of the women that I've been with have told me that to them, it's not completely necessary for me to ejaculate (though enjoyable when I do)...the simple act of intercourse is pleasurable to a woman--and a woman doesn't even necessarily need to orgasm to have what they would call good sex. Women have sex with their brain, anyway...not their vagina.

All I'm saying is: Don't look at sex as being the act of intercourse that simply leads to ejaculation and orgasm as the end goal. Just enjoy what you're doing, when you're doing it--and chances are the woman will enjoy it as well, no matter how sensitive (or unsensitive) your penis is.

Lol and on a side-note, my buddies always told me that if you want to last longer, you should think of grandma when you have sex or wear a thicker condom...or put carmex (the lip balm stuff) on your cojones. There's some weird advice out there! :p

----Steve
 
When I said perfect amount of time in bed I didn't mean a set time like 25 minutes. I meant however long you need it to be. You can train your penis to orgasm just about when you want it to. In my personal experience, I have had women be disappointed when I could not orgasm. They thought they were doing something wrong and were hurt by it. This process of re-sensititizing has helped me. I hope it can help other men as well.

Of course sex isn't just about the climax or just about the man's orgasm, but these are important parts of sex.
 
Badjedidude said:
Lol and on a side-note, my buddies always told me that if you want to last longer, you should think of grandma.


I saw an interview with a porn actress once that was telling about an experience with Ron Jeremy.

She said that during the scene he was hanging over her, doing his best not to look at her and mumbling things like "dead grandmothers" or "run over kittens".

She admitted to wondering what the hell he was doing until she asked him later on in the day.

This is a very strange conversation. :/
 
Well...my honey told me all I have to do is practice holding in me pee...
I guess it's suppose to make me have control over my penis.
Errr...wtf???...dosn't she knows jr. has a mid of his own.lol
 
Well I know that if you need to pee it's easier to have a fuller erection.
 

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