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Why are women so picky?
02-26-2010, 10:21 AM (This post was last modified: 02-26-2010 10:29 AM by Expendable.)
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Why are women so picky?
Is it me or do girls is todays society just seem to be unbeliveably picky? I'm sure in times gone by it was never this difficult to find a women who would be happy with you. I know I'm far from the best looking person in the world, I've quite an erratic personality and most of my interestests are pretty dull but the girls I tend to go for as lovely as they are, aren't anything particularly special. I'm fine with the intial stages of talking to girls and getting to know them but it seems the better they get to know me the less they like me. I can't see what I could do to make a girl like me.


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02-26-2010, 10:50 AM (This post was last modified: 02-26-2010 10:51 AM by Remedy.)
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RE: Why are women so picky?
It's not really just women dude, because in our society today almost everyone seems to be picky. It does really seem incredibly hard to find someone who loves you though and I can understand. No girl has ever felt the way I wanted them to feel about me so I can understand how to get the assumption to feel like they are picky as well. It's just more realistic to say that both sides are picky and the same. It's just about finding that one person who is right for you and someone who isn't picky.
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02-26-2010, 11:36 AM
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RE: Why are women so picky?
(02-26-2010 10:21 AM)Expendable Wrote:  be happy with you.

im pretty sure women back then werent happy. it was just slightly better then completely horrible. like yay, youre better then nothing, so i choose you. yay for limited options.


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02-26-2010, 11:43 AM
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RE: Why are women so picky?
depressing as it myt sound we living in todays era of plastic fuck ups...as in looks is and dictates everything very depressing but thats the way life goes....
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02-26-2010, 11:54 AM
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RE: Why are women so picky?
Uhm... Men are picky, too. I think it's important to be picky. I mean, nobody wants to be with just anybody. We want somebody who meets as many of our needs and desires as possible.
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02-26-2010, 11:57 AM
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RE: Why are women so picky?
(02-26-2010 11:36 AM)h i Wrote:  
(02-26-2010 10:21 AM)Expendable Wrote:  be happy with you.

im pretty sure women back then werent happy. it was just slightly better then completely horrible. like yay, youre better then nothing, so i choose you. yay for limited options.

yay for being able to eat and survive Rolleyes sure would have made me miserable.
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02-26-2010, 12:40 PM
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RE: Why are women so picky?
I agree that it's important to be picky. For me, it's better to be alone than to be in a bad relationship. I'm pretty sure I'd feel way worse in a relationship I'm uncomfortable in.

Heck, if I don't think the girl is anything special, I don't see why I'd want my link with her to be anything special.

And women of the past weren't "picky" because often and in many places in the world, the pairings were pre-arranged. Hard to be picky! Not to mention, men held the jobs and the money, eh.
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02-26-2010, 01:42 PM
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RE: Why are women so picky?
(02-26-2010 10:21 AM)Expendable Wrote:  I've quite an erratic personality and most of my interestests are pretty dull but the girls I tend to go for as lovely as they are, aren't anything particularly special.

If you can't find anything special about them, how do you expect them to find anything special about you?

There has to be something about them that is different from other girls you have met.
Otherwise, why the attraction? Unless you're simply attracted to their physical traits.
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02-26-2010, 02:46 PM (This post was last modified: 02-26-2010 02:53 PM by Lonesome Crow.)
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RE: Why are women so picky?
I'm picky and I'm a guy...the longer I live, the picker I ma getting.

What's your definition of erratic. As in an erratic genius???..Not the norm or above the norm
You think you're too good or too smart for women?..they're dull to you.

Or erratic... as in unstable, not consistant. Such ADD, bi polar, passive agressive, manic depressive?
Well..if you're erratic like this...maybe 5 mins from now..you'll think chicks are awesume. Toungue

So when you talk to a woman..you treat her as if she's not particularly special??
Well Duh.....dude
if you wanna get into a woman...you have to at least get into her becuase it's not all about you.
Come on now...you gatta at least remember her birthday, the first time you kissed her. Her favorite song
Her faviote ice cream, Her favorite colure. Her favorite poam. Her favorite book. Her favorite hobbies
Her hopes and dreams. her favorite movie or movies. Her favorite flower. These are just minimal stuff.

So when you say you're erratic...when women talk...you space out?Toungue
That's just a guy thing.....man. it's not ADD.lmao

Maybe you're putting out a vibe of...when after you get what you want from a woman..then she's nothing in particular special.
Maybe they lose interest in you becuase you're not interested in them?

There has to be something you epecificly like about a particular woman...The way she walks, her scent, the way she carries herself.
her vioce, the colour of her eyes, her view on life, her gentleness, her sweetness, her sexiness, her self repect.

There's a especific woman that makes my blood boil and makes my heart wanna explode. It's everything about her.
Maybe she likes that or that's what draws her to me....
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02-26-2010, 02:56 PM
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RE: Why are women so picky?
Both men and women ARE picky....but fortunately everyone is picky about different things, so no one is ever truly out of the game.

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