Ok I am shy, especially towards girls, I always go to church dances but am too shy to ask any to dance. Well I like this girl from church and she is shy too, she tells me that she doesn't go to dances. She told me she has to work on the day of the next dance so she might be late but that might be a good thing. We talk on facebook once in a while. Now I know she's shy even more than me in some areas!

What should I do? I like her but I'm shy and she's shy too. I want to dance and talk with her but she is too shy to go to dances. The next one is this coming saturday night by the way. How do I convince her to go?

She decided not to go to the last dance. She said- I didn't go. I know it's lame but that's I roll.

well you could always take things slowly and not pressure her to go to the dance, and take things at her pace, but I'm no expert when it comes to girls, but that is what I'd do

How do I take things slowly? I'm new to this girl thing :-)

Good question....uh......

*notices hes in way over his head and looks around for help*

I'd say keep on just talking to her and eventually she will not be as shy and start opening up more

But anyone else's help is appreciated here

Lol, thanks that sounds like good advice :-) I'll check back tomorrow it's 12.30 at night here.

Sound right to me. Dances could be an uncomfortable situation for her if she is shy. Continued talking and getting to know her better may eventually put her more at ease with the idea, without pressing her on it, if she knows that you are going to be there Knightsofwar210.





This is not intended to imply that i know anything.

Is dancing the only option? How about going for a walk in a park? Dinner? Fair? Maybe she really doesn't like church dances. If she's talking to you and you like her, take your time man.

I hate the first bit in a relationship. The bit when both ppl are shy like where your at. But then the two girlfriends I had I wished 6 moths into them that I was back at the shy bit lol

there is no right and wrong way to do this things. I think you both sound shy. When you do get there I think you well make a good partners. Just try and not miss out on any opportunity. Face book can be good for this. Just keep sending her some applications along with other ppl. The other ppl are not little to do them but my Guss is this girl well cos you sent them. Could be a good ice breaker.

All tho I have a girl that I got talking to in a pub why Vere drunk and she added me to face book and I think she likes me and Ive not really talked to her on there Am not sure if I like her back in that way but I Guss I well never know in tell I start talking. So who am I to advice? well, I Guss giving advice is a lot easier then taking it.