| Telephonophobia... |
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BrokenDreams Unregistered MyMood: None Points:
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I hate the telephone. I never answer. For one, nobody ever calls me, so what's the point. If I want to contact someone I'll use email. I also hate leaving messages. >.< I'm afraid I'll say something really dumb from being nervous. |
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| 02-05-2008 11:48 AM | |
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tomuchnothing Unregistered MyMood: None Points:
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I hate the telephone. I never answer. For one, nobody ever calls me, so what's the point. If I want to contact someone I'll use email. I also hate leaving messages. >.< I'm afraid I'll say something really dumb from being nervous. Hahaha oh god messages are the worst for me! I always end up getting nervous and start talking to much then I start going on about something completly unrelated and then I get tounge tied and make a complete fool out of myself LOL
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| 02-05-2008 08:30 PM | |
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toxic-tears LimeGemini      Posts: 446 Group: Registered Joined: Dec 2007 Status: Offline Reputation
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| 02-06-2008 04:08 AM | |
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human_condition Member     Posts: 97 Group: Registered Joined: Dec 2007 Status: Offline Reputation
MyMood: None Points: 14.40
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Yep, I hate answering phones, especially if they're not mine... for example, in our music office, I won't know who's calling and I'll have to answer politely.... argh... I just let it ring  Puppet on a string |
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| 02-07-2008 04:24 AM | |
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armor4sleepPA Bring on the Night      Posts: 331 Group: Registered Joined: Jan 2008 Status: Offline Reputation
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sometimes my mouth goes dry, and I have a hard time swallowing when I have to call someone unfamiliar.... it's weird. sometimes it's bad and I slur my words at first. Maybe performance anxiety? It's pathetic. I'm just a big hairy American winning machine... ~Ricky Bobby (from Taledega Nights) |
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| 02-07-2008 11:53 AM | |
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finalfantasi Junior Member    Posts: 49 Group: Registered Joined: Feb 2008 Status: Offline Reputation
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When I was young I thought I was the only one that had this kind of phobia! So I thought I was weird and it made me feel bad, until I found out later that I wasn't the only one uncomfortable with phone calls.. but my family makes fun of me not making phone calls a lot. People get mad at me for not picking up sometimes too. I guess because I'm so used to no one really calling me so I forget about my phone sometimes. I get nervous calling people I know or familiar with, than strangers(like business). Once I walked around my house for a whole hour deciding if I should call a friend of mine or not, and what should I talk about lol.. it was sooo bad, I was nervous and sweating. I think this phobia developed because I used to avoid phonecalls from certain people, and my friends used to say I was boring on the phone and other bad experiences like those big long silences(I'm always thinking that I'm boring the other person). I used to have a job at picking up the phone.. it was horrible! I think that made it worse. I still don't like the phone very much(anxiety about what to say,etc).. but I think by exposing myself to it more and slowly, the fear is lessening. I played an online game with a guy, and he tried to open me up and talked to me on a voice chat program(ventrilo)... so because of that I'm able to talk to him easily on the phone too after awhile. I'm kind of practicing with him lol, he knows I have a phone phobia A few days ago, I had my first phone convo that lasted for 4-5 hours wow. They usually only ever lasted 5min. |
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| 02-24-2008 10:36 AM | |
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Skorian Posting Freak       Posts: 1,024 Group: Registered Joined: Jan 2008 Status: Offline Reputation
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Already since I have been doing better I made one phone call to try to find out why internet service was down. I was fairly pushy, but thought I was pretty nice. The person who answered didn't know anything at all . Just that it was down. Check my profile for links to lots of information and causes.
Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them. Dalai Lama |
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| 02-24-2008 10:44 AM | |
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lonelyloser Solitary Poster     Posts: 230 Group: Registered Joined: Oct 2007 Status: Offline Reputation
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I very comfortable talking on the phone. If I talk to a girl on the phone she will be able to tolerate me but if I see her in real life she'll walk away in no time. |
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| 02-24-2008 10:46 AM | |
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finalfantasi Junior Member    Posts: 49 Group: Registered Joined: Feb 2008 Status: Offline Reputation
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hmm that's wierd. I'm kind of the opposite. I'd be more comfortable face to face with the other person and talking, then on the phone. On the phone I can't see them, whereas face to face I can see their reactions/body language. Like if they are smiling, sad, uncomfortable, etc. |
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| 02-24-2008 11:01 AM | |
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Einsam Junior Member   Posts: 19 Group: Registered Joined: Feb 2008 Status: Offline Reputation
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Yes! I hate talking on the phone. >_<"
When it rings, my mother or father will say to me, "Quick! Get it!" I never do. Instead, I'll grab the phone, press the button and run it to them.
When people ask for my phone number, I'll give them my email address. But, if they somehow manage to get it off me and tell me that they'll call me later, I'll leave it off on purpose.  |
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| 02-28-2008 10:00 PM | |
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