Mr Seal The Albatros
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Second thought, nevermind.
Ak5 said:Oh ho ho, I know that feel! Jealously, that monster... It's hard not to compare yourself to other people. You mention that the conversations with you are just faint, and quiet, while those same people can have lively conversations with others. I don't think that it's something about you personally, but more about they don't know enough about you, per say.
But, I don't know your situation Mr. Seal, and I don't think I can give good advice without knowing that. If you want to discuss, you can post here or PM, or we can just forget about it that's fine too.
Mr Seal The Albatros said:Ak5 said:Oh ho ho, I know that feel! Jealously, that monster... It's hard not to compare yourself to other people. You mention that the conversations with you are just faint, and quiet, while those same people can have lively conversations with others. I don't think that it's something about you personally, but more about they don't know enough about you, per say.
But, I don't know your situation Mr. Seal, and I don't think I can give good advice without knowing that. If you want to discuss, you can post here or PM, or we can just forget about it that's fine too.
Kind of felt overwhelmed, so I wasn't thinking clearly when I removed it. Here's what I'm talking about.
You know when you walk around almost anywhere and see all these groups of people walking around, having a good time and then you notice you're still walking alone? Or when you're on Facebook and see a photo or status with a large smiling group of friends? It just sort of gets to you.
I don't really have any really close IRL friendships (Well, outside of family). Because of this, I tend to get really jealous most of the time whenever I see a lot of people together having a good time. And I mean, that's all good. Glad they're enjoying each other's company. But it just makes me feel like I'll never find a friendship as close as the one I see every day.
I also have this habit of isolating myself. Counter-productive, I know. I just get stressed out when I'm out with others for a very long time. I'm working on it, but so far, I don't really know how to fix it.
Finally, there's a problem that I have that involves not believing someone's a friend. I was out with a few friends of mine (I have some, though they're 5 hours away) and I noticed half the time I was there, I was either jealous that I wasn't as close of a friend as others, or I believed they were only acting like they were my friends out of pity.
I don't really know how to sole these problems, so I wanted to see if anyone here had any solutions.
Mr Seal The Albatros said:Ak5 said:Oh ho ho, I know that feel! Jealously, that monster... It's hard not to compare yourself to other people. You mention that the conversations with you are just faint, and quiet, while those same people can have lively conversations with others. I don't think that it's something about you personally, but more about they don't know enough about you, per say.
But, I don't know your situation Mr. Seal, and I don't think I can give good advice without knowing that. If you want to discuss, you can post here or PM, or we can just forget about it that's fine too.
Kind of felt overwhelmed, so I wasn't thinking clearly when I removed it. Here's what I'm talking about.
You know when you walk around almost anywhere and see all these groups of people walking around, having a good time and then you notice you're still walking alone? Or when you're on Facebook and see a photo or status with a large smiling group of friends? It just sort of gets to you.
I don't really have any really close IRL friendships (Well, outside of family). Because of this, I tend to get really jealous most of the time whenever I see a lot of people together having a good time. And I mean, that's all good. Glad they're enjoying each other's company. But it just makes me feel like I'll never find a friendship as close as the one I see every day.
I also have this habit of isolating myself. Counter-productive, I know. I just get stressed out when I'm out with others for a very long time. I'm working on it, but so far, I don't really know how to fix it.
Finally, there's a problem that I have that involves not believing someone's a friend. I was out with a few friends of mine (I have some, though they're 5 hours away) and I noticed half the time I was there, I was either jealous that I wasn't as close of a friend as others, or I believed they were only acting like they were my friends out of pity.
I don't really know how to sole these problems, so I wanted to see if anyone here had any solutions.
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