I contest this. In fact, I find it very easy to believe that a person can love two people. There is not ONE person that you can be compatible with an grow to love.

Although, you are correct when you say you must choose one, our society dictates it. Not only that, but the girls in question probably would dictate it.

Lonely,

I think there may be some guys who would want to toss you in the river for having this frustration! But, on the serious side, I think it all depends on how you, and the girls actually feel. Do the girls know of eachother? Do they know you aren't dating exclusively? If everyone is aware of it, and all okay with it, including yourself, then date. A person dates in hope of finding the ONE they are compatible with. Or, they date just because they want to date. I'm wondering, based on what you wrote, if you aren't starting to feel like it's time to settle down, which is why you are thinking of change. (Or, if they don't know of eachother, maybe you're tired of the juggling! ) :-)

Is there one in particular you would want to date steady? Maybe you need to step back and think about what you're really ready for.

Good luck!

Please allow me to speak for the rest of the single men on this board:

I hate you and wish that you end up in a river soon