I am losing my mind here lately. I can't seem to shed all of my
co-dependent girlies. Katie keeps constantly calling me all day long, Jessica wont stop coming over to my house at night, and I could go on and on. I wish I didn't date so many women at once. But a good question is, is it better to date as many girls as possible, or just date one girl you like steady? I wish I were single again.

To be or not to be, that is the question.

Lonely,

I think there may be some guys who would want to toss you in the river for having this frustration! But, on the serious side, I think it all depends on how you, and the girls actually feel. Do the girls know of eachother? Do they know you aren't dating exclusively? If everyone is aware of it, and all okay with it, including yourself, then date. A person dates in hope of finding the ONE they are compatible with. Or, they date just because they want to date. I'm wondering, based on what you wrote, if you aren't starting to feel like it's time to settle down, which is why you are thinking of change. (Or, if they don't know of eachother, maybe you're tired of the juggling! ) :-)

Is there one in particular you would want to date steady? Maybe you need to step back and think about what you're really ready for.

Good luck!

I never had any girlfriends up until very recently, so know that I don't have a problem getting girls to date me, I'm probably acting very foolishly. I think I'm just trying to make up for all the years I sat alone in my house wishing I were like the guys that had too many girls to handle on T.V. and in movies. Eventually I decided to talk to girls, and the result was amazing. Eventually, I will just settle down with hopefully a decent girl. Thanks for the support Teach, I appreciate the comments.

To be or not to be, that is the question.

Gee. something seems to be working for you lol, maybe you could give some advice to some of the lonely hearts on this forum.

Yes, why don't you give me some advice??? What do you say when you talk to all these girls?

Hey! LG...I've got a question for ya'.
If you have these kinds of problems..then..why are you here?

I know I wouldn't be lonely if I had a few girlfriends.

having more than 1 gf doesnt necessarily mean u wont b lonely. in fact sometimes it makes u even more lonely

OK..please explain. What would you be yearning for aside from companionship of close (girl) friends? Because right now..I am just a little confused by your statement. And although I realize you might not answer my question..I am hoping you will. What are you searching for?

Congratulations, on having women alot of women in your life.