I would like to meet someone who is prepared to look past the exterior and learn to know the person inside.

Also someone who would have a heart that is giving, and someone who likes cuddles (especially after you-know-what).

God thats awful, I sound like a woman :-(

Only thing that really matters for me when choosing a life partner is that I love her so much that I am ready to unite with her in flesh and soul. And that she loves me back as much. As the broken and imperfect human being I am.

I try to avoid having preferences since I feel whole is more than sum of its parts. Each person is unique and most have some characteristics that I can find attractive, but naturally I am generally more attracted to certain types of people. For example the generic partyanimal type of girls are usually the kind I rarely look for potential partner. Often their view on life and preferences on ways to pass time are something that clash with my personality too much.

The core qualities that typically attract me though are things like: kindness, sense of humour, wisdom, calmness, intelligence, high morals and intimacy both physically and mentally. These are somewhat in right order.

Would also like alot if she would share atleast some of my interests. Be it philosophy, games, fantasy in general etc. I have hard time imaging myself with ”normal” person who doesn’t have any interest to things I hold dear. Thinking it would be too difficult to build deep connection without something like that uniting us.

As for appearence, I am not asking moon from the sky. I can find people of different sizes, shapes and colors beautiful. Love makes you blind to aesthetical flaws the person might have. I would prefer someone who is short though. Don’t know why really, perhaps it is just some primal instinct type of thing. Or just my personally refined taste of beauty.

You sound very humane and pure to me. No need to feel shunned about it. Not every man needs to be the caveman type that has testosterone pouring from their nostrils and ears, with heart made from cold stone.

That wouldn't work. I have enough problems without going to jail for biting the head off my girlfriend.

This is nothing but a daydream but we all need them!
Someone to have a laugh with(just now that feels really important)
I used to laugh a lot and I miss it.
Someone to respect my wishes and thoughts, even if they don't agree with them.
Someone I want to grow old with and them with me.
Someone who would help me with my massive garden, because they want to.

JustLost, you are one of those people that start on the ears of your easterbunny, aren't you? That is a good point, though... I think you'd have to start at the extremities and work your way in...

... Not that I've given the matter any thought... Cause... Well... Then it's considered premedatated...

Frost Burn,
For 18, you really have it together! I was impressed by your answers. Sound like you have thought about it before.


Robert, You sound like a woman?? Never! Well......er.... maybe just a little bit. ...lol you know I'm kidding you! I think you have a great point.

(((((Scotsgirl))))) I think you have a great list of qualities.

Just Lost, Fodder, I dunnoh 'bout you two....lol

This post was last modified: 06-17-2008 08:48 AM by Naleena.

What do I want..... I want honesty. And I want someone who likes me just the way I am. Someone who appreciates love, and love me back.

Just as a bonus, someone who could endure my musical taste ^^

What kind of music do you like Jeremi?...lol You want someone to "endure" Your musical tastes? Can't be that bad...lol

Someone who is honest and loyal, who makes me feel like I'm worthy. Who loves me and to who I can give all my love. I want someone who I don't have to pretend with.

Smart, funny and able to take dozens of awful jokes a day without hitting me would be a massive bonus but hey beggars can't be choosers!

This post was last modified: 06-17-2008 09:17 AM by Scott.

i think i would just want someone who is kind honest respectful and fun to hang out with