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nice one too Smile but it sound so easy when you say it. Coz once u had a time with the person you care about going away,u will feel lonelier and cry missing them. we are human after all. but i guess its better to have the chance of a one last happy moment with someone you care about other than not having the chance at all Smile

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wow u guys make it sound so easy. terrific

It sounds easy but I never said it will be easy. Things like these are never easy, heck, sometimes they're the hardest to go through even. All I'm saying is, now you have the time to say sorry or do good things for him or just be there with him, there's time for you to do things.

I didn't get this much time when I lost my Dad last December and up till today I just wished I had just at least 10 more minutes to be able to be by his side and hold his hand. Just that cos there's nothing more I can ask for. I didn't even get to say sorry for the major argument we had before that. I live my life to not have regrets, but I will admit that that is one big regret I have in my entire life in which I had no control of. And it takes so long just to get over the fact that I didn't get enough time to just do things with him.

So while there's time, seize it to the best you can so that when he's no longer around, it doesn't hurt as much as it would if there wasn't any time. It's reality.

It's not gonna be easy, dude. But you have to be strong for this, no matter how lonely you get now, during, or after. And you've still got us here to talk to if you need to.

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if i was sure i only had one month to live, i would go home and bum. Watch tv, eat, sleep, use the net....it would be HEAVEN..

Lol that's just what I've been doing lately. But not that I'm dying. I'm just bumming around while I can. Toungue

10-03-2007 10:07 AM

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awwh..bluey; be my friend....i wont cry (i promose) lol

MisterD Wrote:

best answer so far Smile

i like the idea

bluey Wrote:

You now I have thought about this be for and realy have no idea what I would do.

I would not say sorry for anything as Ive done nothing to be sorry about.

Maybe start smoking cigarettes again lol Not like I would have to worry about cancer Wink

I wouldn't go to church I don't think. I would just try and have a good time and tell the ppl I love that I love them.

One thing I would do is pay for a few ppl Ive made friends with over the net to come over and have a party of a life time. I would make it a rule that there would be no crying

I’m selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.

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10-03-2007 10:19 AM

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MisterD Wrote:

nice one too Smile

but it sound so easy when you say it. Coz once u had a time with the person you care about going away,u will feel lonelier and cry missing them. we are human after all. but i guess its better to have the chance of a one last happy moment with someone you care about other than not having the chance at all Smile

Yep. That's why there's the saying "It's always easier said than done." Smile And I'm telling you, it's not easy. Cos then when you spend time with that someone, you can't help but come to the realisation that you're doing this cos they might just go anytime soon. But I wish you all the best, MisterD Wink

10-03-2007 10:28 AM

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jales Wrote:

awwh..bluey; be my friend....i wont cry (i promose) lol

Hallo jales. Pleas to meet you. And of cours all be your friend Toungue You seem like a lovable person Smile OH and you better not cry lol

Am glad that every one liked my plan for only a month leaft Big Grin

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10-03-2007 05:18 PM

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So sorry to hear what you've gone through. Reading your post made me stop and think about myself. Yes..we're all going to face this point aren't we? I know this sounds odd..but in some way your father was blessed. He was told how long he had. Some of us will never get that chance. One month to live? I think I'd sell everything I own..take a trip around the world or at least as far as my money would take me. Then come home and hold onto to the ones I loved the most. Towards the very end..I think if I had the courage..I would take care of the problem. I hate hospitals and wouldn't anyone who cared for me to suffer any length of time waiting for me to pass.

10-15-2007 09:45 AM

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I would burn my appartment building down in the middle of the night. And I would definately call my friend with cancer and be like im going to beat you. I would tell off my mother. Then I would fly to Australia or Puerto Rico.

I had become engulfed in my own hatred, disappointment, anger, and the only way I could handle it was to become apathetic about everything.

12-15-2007 04:20 AM

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crazy enough , but what if Mr.D is gone?
last visit was 11-06...

12-16-2007 02:09 AM

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