"You need to snap out of it, you've got it lucky compared to some people"- dad
"You should try to help yourself, you don't want to worry your parents do you?"- my ex-doctor/idiot
"Why don't you go out much? these are supposed to be the best years of your life."- dad

Maybe not the worst but definitely very annoying to hear.

I was dating a guy on serious terms. He was over here to visit his brother and that is how we met. We bought and exchanged rings cause he insisted it should be that way. I went out to see him in NYC. When I was there I realized he was banging his neighbour. He never came out to tell me this but his flatmate indirectly suggested it. She came down for his birthday and almost dry humped him in front of everyone.
When I learned about this, I grabbed my purse, walked out of his apartment, and walked around in Brooklyn, like a soulless ghost, crying my eyes out. People on the street even felt sorry for me, they asked me if everything was okay.
I did not want him to see me crying, so I walked around for like 3 hours, crying, and went back to his home after I dried my tears.
I came back to his apartment and his b-day party was over.
He told me that he did not want to speak to me that night.
I packed my bags and moved to a hotel room close to Manhattan. He called me up and told me he will take me to JFK for my flight.
I came back to Europe. He called me up, totally drunk and he said "I think you wanna know if I fucked my neighbour, YES, I have FUCKED HER ALL ALONG. "
I said "Why are you saying such a thing to me?"
He said "Cause women deserve it. My ex-girlfriend fucked my brother and married him"
I felt like as if someone took out my heart from my chest and knifed it into pieces.
For a moment I felt like I went outside of myself, like watching myself as a third person. I think I was traumatised.
That was the worst thing that was ever said to me.

This post was last modified: 06-29-2008 04:02 AM by ClosetGeek.

"You've got a week to live."

Or "We're going to have to amputate". LOL![/align]

"....Shutup.... you are not crazy....."
"SoaD sucks...." ("/FTL"\)
"HA! You!? Fight!? *Laughs*"
"Nerd...."
"What is 1+1?"


FTL=For the lulz!

Ouch... You win... I'm sorry to hear that, though...

My ex, towards the end of the relationship, sent me an email. I read it in the computer room at the library of the University in which I study, as I was desperate to see what she had to say. This is essentially what she said:

"You are not in my family and therefore I will not treat you like you are in my family"

To this day (and considering how much I demonstrated I loved her) that is the greatest insult anyone has ever given me. I didn't even feel emotion for the first minute or so, I was just like "wow".

That is actually a very hurtful thing to say. Its like saying me and my family are better then you and you are beneath us. I would say your ex is a jumped up sow and sow..... Your better off with out someone that thinks like that. I loving person and a nice family well always make you feel apart of the family.

I couldnt stand hearing that as well!!!

that is like the most eff'ed up thing i have ever heard!! Im really sorry you had to go through all that , nobody should!. But do realize that the world is full of retarted ppl

This post was last modified: 06-30-2008 10:31 PM by lonelydude.

the worst thing some one has told me and can ever tell me again is "The more i get to know you the more i hate you." A prick of a prep said this to my face with out any chang of emotion and with out a bat of a eye lash. his voice was nonchalant and his just walked away after saying this with out caring. I mean if you cant tell this left an impession on me.

LOL That's a good one.