Well, I guess I can go ahead and add my 2 cents worth. I think you are partly right Ghost. Most guys only see one thing when they want to be with a girl. (How is she in bed). I have to say..and this is going to look really bad for me...Out of all of the guys I've dated (being a very large number), not one has proven otherwise. Some you knew up front, some you found out after, some you found out way later. But, it was all the same ending.
I'm not sure how you would go about finding a guy who was really sincere about his intentions, since you can't possibly know what someone else is truly thinking. I think we all hope for the best and then when it turns out bad, we think about the signs showing us otherwise. There just really isn't any way of knowing the true heart and intentions of another person.
Example..You meet a person, they're great. You spend 15 years with this person and then one day, this person commits a major crime. After 15 years, did you think you knew that person? You never know what lies within.
Well, I don't believe that someone has the capacity to commit a crime lying dormant in themselves for a large part of their life; it is more a reflection of the person they became. I am certainly not the same person I was 15 years ago.
People do change with time. Its not a good or bad thing, its just the way people are.
The majority of men do enjoy sex, and so do the majority of women. While sex is part of what a guy looks for, it's far more complicated than that.. its just one piece of what attracts us to someone. Personally, I need to be mentally attracted to someone as well - not terribly unusual I would hope.
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