im curious...whos lonely?
why?
what drove you to be lonely?

ill start:
im lonely because for the first time in my life ive given up on finding love. i know im young,and i have a feeling that alot of people are going to bash on me about that, but love is important even when your young.
what drove me to be lonely......a girl that i actualy loved, a girl that i tried to get close to for 3 years,just do have her spit everything ive done for her,in my face.
i know im not a very cheery person,but can you blame me?

I've actually only ever been here to help others, so i'm not another sad guy, but if i think of the hours per week that i actually are by myself or would like to be, i'm very much alone. BUT, of course, probably not at all as much as most other people here are. I mean for a happy person.

I'm mostly by myself simply because i find my studying and helping people as more important than hanging out with friends. I do really enjoy it though, but being a perfectionist heading for quite a craving profession, i got to prioritize.

Sorry for asking but... how old are you? I dont know... Im alone cause i want to be alone. And... at the same time, i dont want to be alone lol. Dont get angry at me but... this girl will not be the last love of your life. When we joke here we say: "Liga nao, depois piora" that means "Dont worry, its going to get worst" x) If you go to the highest mountain with no TV, no music, no nothing, maybe you are going to be safe. But if not, you are going to fall in love sometimes, doesnt matter how much you dont want that. I know people that fell in love by the guy that sings their favorite song lol I dont know much more than you about all this mess that is like someone but i know that when we are younger it hurts more. I dont know about you but im going to run and hide all i can lol. But... dont pay attetion on me. Im silly today x)

running and hiding only got me tormented. it wasnt until i started to stand up for myself, that people started to respect me and leave me alone.
also im not going to tell you my age right off the bat, you have to give me a good reason to do so

I just wanted to know if you were too young. Like 16, 17... Cause in that age everything seems to be more than it really is. Like... you love a guy and you think if he leaves you, you are going to die. Things like that. And yes, i prefer to run than start liking someone and in 2 or 3 months be crying like a baby. And people respect me and i never needed to be left alone like... i never had problems to make friends and to get bfs. The problem was the last bf that was a jerk, just that ^.^

lol yah

I'm am lonely i think because I hate myself, I conspire and set myself up for failure at every turn. I also think think deep down inside that I deserve no happyness and because of that i dont have any to show for it. I avoid crowds of ppl at all costs, I stare at the night wishing i could be something more and I've have always known that I was supposed to be, but after the years of falling in my own coffin I have just given up.....I guess I am just a lazy ass dreamer......But regardless of that fact I am very lonely..

No one well bash you here. It is normal to give up on love for a bit when you have been hurt. Age has nothing to do with it. We hurt just the same when where young as we do when where old. Just sometimes when where young life can be a bit of a roller coaster and we have to get off for a brake sometimes. I still remember my fist love and acutely well always care in some way for her. I think the fist love that you separate with always well hurt that bit moor then a lot of the others that may come along.

just out of curiosity how did you fined this sight then?

As Luna said, that really doesn't matter, you will be in love again anyway.

It seems that most often happens when you aren't looking. The only sure way to avoid it is to hide in a cave someplace, which unfortunately some of us actually do.