@Sonic_95

I belive there is a person out there for everybody, one you like, and one who likes you back...
I'm 24, and never had a girlfriend. Sometimes I care, sometimes I do not! ("do not" should be written with capital letters, but I'd let it stay with small).

"I have joined up with online dating services"
- Stay away from those dating services. In my opinion, they are so lame, so fake and so waste of time. Waste of the internets space. And can drive you crazy. "Is there a letter from a sweet girl for me today??!" And you check and you check and you check... Untill you don't give a fuck, and delete your account. Ahh, sweet freedom.

Besides... most people lie their ass of in the profiles, "Oh, I'm so sweet," "Oh, I'm giving reply to everybody," "Oh, I'd been a supermodel for 10 years,". Right... and my last date was with Mary-Kate Olsen.

I'm not saying you can't find love their, and their ain't sweet girls, but... just let it come to you, let it envolve to a friendship, and maybe later love.

And when it comes to your weight, it doesn't matter. A lot of girls like "big guys", and a lot don't care about how your look really.
I'm skinny, actually really skinny, that is just how I am, and some people don't like that either.

But go out in town, join some groups with people with interests as you.
Cooking, computers, book group whatever. Or go to clubs, even though there are a lot of fucked up druggy bitches there.

I don't know if you are wrong... even though I think there is a "special one" for everybody.
And I agree, some people I wonder why they have a girlfriend, when they are so stupid in their head. But... maybe it's because their girlfriends are stupid too. So they are a great match!

But to find out if you are wrong or not, do like Avenue Q sings:
"There is life outside your apartment."

yea, lose weight , man

We had so much arguing about fat and weight and if it matters or not. that OMG almost fighted lol.

This post was last modified: 08-08-2008 03:47 AM by Incognita.

Yes someone has to be attractive to you in some sort of way or form to like you. I know what it like, I'm not even remotely good looking, and I guess I just have to deal with a life of loneliness. Even my parents call me "ugly" and a "pussy", and now I'm so use to that, it hurt and also scary at the same time. You can only try as hard as you can, with whatever face you're given, it a done deal no matter how hard you try. I'm not the type of person to lie, so I'm here to only tell you the truth. I don't know what you look like, but your biggest problem is your weight issue, and thus bring your confidence down. I see a lot of overweight people with lot of girlfriends, but if you don't have the confidence, it a no go.

I wish I could disagree with anonymous but I can't, people are way more superficial now then they ever were in the past, and it a challenge for us young lion. Anyway there is one solution, and it gonna take a pretty decent about of risk and luck, but maybe you should move to another country? I live in the US, preferably CA, and I can tell you that I doubt other girl from other country are like it here. It doesn't matter what they look like, it more the raise they were born in, and everyone know most girls in the US are spoil brat, and that is from my observation as long as many other. I don't think UK girl are that bad or off the chart as American girls, but I might be wrong, but sometime if love is the most important thing to you, you gonna risk it. Same thing as winning the lottery, except you will have a better chance, though I don't know where you live, so hopefully that help if your an American.

I said all I could with open honestly, and now it your turn to come up with a solution. I wish you the best of luck, now go out there and hit them up tiger!


Chris

no your right their is no hope just give up >_>

There's websites for big beautiful people that have a range of people from small to overweight, there are people who don't give a damn about someones weight so why not give those a go.

As for not finding anyone, it takes time, sometimes alot.

Don't give up, keep going.

(((keeper)))
Actualy I alrady referense to (((EveWasFramed))) words but I will explain if it is not open to you.

Everything is very simple. Guys with more weight or skiny are NOT ATTRACTIVE TO THE MOST OF WOMEN. I don't think that you'll date with a girl that can't pass through the door easily.
Example -> The lonely good looking girl in the club making her decission about dance partner. There are 2 confident and smiling guys one of them is good looking and the other one seriously need to lose more weight to be attractive. So how do you think who has better chances and who is more attractive to her ?. Another thing when he is not that big just have a little more weight but we are not talking about them am I right ?

"Everybody meet everybody looking on the cloth and only then deeper." That is why you to change yourself outside and inside but outside is more important on first meeting.