It ranges from feelings of neutrality to miserable loneliness…

And then there’s the feeling of non-existence…

Wishing you were numb about how being alone overwhelmed your nothingness, keeping your mind preoccupied of rational thoughts hoping that somehow it can conceal the melancholy and hollowness that’s creeping you up inside.

But why do we have to suffer this much?

We all wonder why life might not even impose its unjust cruelty, but then most of us feels that life is just an unfair world to live in.

If money’s the root of all evils, is there such a thing that is root of all loneliness?

Are there selected people who are destined to be forever ‘miserably forsaken’?

Why misery exists?

Why are we lonely? Why am I lonely? Why are YOU lonely?

Is it the circumstances? Or is it just us that are not able to make the best out of everything we have?

Is it the question of contentment? Or is it just our social life’s blameworthiness?

Hey I like what you wrote, it really summed up alot for me.

Welcome to the forum.

I think this one. Don't know why but I Guss a lot of the time I don't feel like being bothered to make the effort that's needed. I Guss there is a few reasons for that. 1, sometimes I don't think the person is worth being friends with. 2, My health, sometimes I get to physically tied. So don't go out when I could had done. And other things are I don't work so there for meet less ppl.

But I do think there are a number of reasons why I ended up being lonely. some things I could not have changed and still can not and never well be able to. Other things I suppose I could change and I am working on them things right now.

Welcome here BTW. I can already see your going to be an interesting member

This post was last modified: 09-19-2008 10:57 PM by Bluey.

thanx 4 welcoming me hir…

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Welcome here BTW. I can already see your going to be an interesting member
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thanx! I hope I could really be one… ;p

I'm the way I am today becuase it's by chioce.
I no longer feel that impending doom.
Perhaps through circumstance that I see this world or life through fracture lens.
Once upon a time I felt I would never be alone and there is One that would stand by my side.
I feel forsaken but perhaps it is not I that's holding me up or carring me through this.
Life is unfair, but I'm not alone. Life did not single me out.
I feel great sadness becuase I love deeply.

Only Scarlett Jonhansson can make me feel ok again.lol
Lets just say I'm temping the ONe.

This post was last modified: 09-20-2008 12:53 AM by Lonesome Crow.

Just like any other concept, these things exist for contrast.

Without loneliness, folks who are not lonely would not know it.

For me its circumstances. All my friends moved for uni and I live in a small town. Its either circumstances or you are holding back, and to which you are the only one to blame.

To think people are destined to be lonely is to surrunder, and to except life as it is and not try for change. If you think like this, you will be lonely for every.

I think some of you put to much thought into lonelyness like its a disease/curse. For most of you its your inability to connect with people. Im very able to make friends, I just dont get the oppertunity to do so.

In my case, I’ve been surrounded with friends and a very supportive family, but then I still feel a deep hollow carved inside me… if finding the cause of this emptiness that I’m feeling right now will actually solve the problem, where should I start?

It depends what you're belief system is.

That emptiness inside that you speak of I can kind of relate.
Some poeple seek a Higher Power or GOD to fill that emptiness becuase
nothing of this earth (people, places, & things) and possibly fill it or take that emptiness away.
People, places and things may fill that viod for a lttle while...but only a while.
That's why some people go shoping and buy new things all the time.
Or some people eat...they eat becuase they feel empty.
Some people get into relationship to fill that void.
Some people trun into workaholics.
An addictions of sorts or the many distractions to keep from feeling that viod.

A loving God..of course. It dosn't have to be religious..it can be spiritual.
It's a conception..you don't have to fully understand god or a HP.
The conception is a HP or GOD is limitless or greater than the void.

You simply just ask ur HP to releave you of the emptiness or viod you have so that
you may live and be productive or and an extension of that love.
Sometimes its 5 mins at a time. For the most part it's oneday at time.
It just takes practice.

The space or void inside that you feel...is no longer a vacumm.
It's actully a where LOVE shines through you.

The conception is that ..You're a child of GOD and it's your birth right.
Not only that you deverse that LOVE..it's your harritage.
You don't need to do anything or earn it.
You only need to Accept it...
It's like Atonement or being whole.

This post was last modified: 09-21-2008 10:16 AM by Lonesome Crow.