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Ice

Resently I read article about asexuality. I thought I may be asexual. There was 3 cases in this article, first was normal relationship with man and woman and they did sex because of man, second was relationship with man and woman, no sex but cuddling, third was relationship with woman and woman, no sex but cuddling.

What do you think if your date told he/she is asexual and there is no intrest for sex but only cuddling and being close?

Could you be that kind of relationship as a asexual who make sex even does not want it or owner of normal sexuality who does not do the sex because parter was not intrest to it?
I'd finish the date, but any possible relationship with the girl wouldn't go beyond friendship.

I want a girl who wants to have sex with me. *shrug* That's not all that I want in a woman... but it is an important part of it. Cuddling alone just wouldn't cut it for me.

Ice

When I read this article I was suprised how big sacrifices some people are ready to do because of love, especially when sexuality is highlighted on these days. I thought love between these couples must be true love.
Well, there are always areas where a person should be willing to sacrifice for love. I just personally can't sacrifice sex for love. *shrug*

But it is good if those couples really love each other. Smile
Yeah I couldn't do it.
I wouldn't mind being in such a relationship. For me sex is not so important. Problem is only that i fear the dulness of relationships. I want my girlfriend to be nuts. A girl who only wants to cuddle would be a step in the good direction, but than she also needs to like eating animals that are still alive, or jump from buildings for fun.
Yea I wouldn't mind, I just need to be told before hand so I know it's not that she don't love me, but then this is coming from someone who has never been in a relationship.

Edit: My reason being if you think of this the other way around, if something happened to you and you weren't able to have sex, it would be a little sad your partner ditch you just because of that, wouldn't it? Of course it is their freedom of choice, if it is that important then I wouldn't mind them leaving for someone better, but I surely won't leave someone I love because of this issue, that's how I see the whole thing.

Ice

(07-11-2010, 09:45 PM)Daan Wrote: [ -> ]but than she also needs to like eating animals that are still alive, or jump from buildings for fun.

Sorry to ask but do you possible have some laws which protect living animals from things like that? I hope your becoming girlfriend do not break her leg when she want to impress you.

This is suprising, I thought all are going to reply "No way!" lol
Ice Wrote:Sorry to ask but do you possible have some laws which protect living animals from things like that?

It depends on the country or state. In many places in this world, eating animals alive is considered to make the animal's meat taste better or be more nutritious. It just goes by whatever the local tradition and food code happens to be.

But I mostly suspect that Daan was perhaps being a bit sarcastic. And if he wasn't, then... *shrug* if that's what they do where he lives, that's just how things are. Smile
Yeah, i was sarcastic, though there is also a slight element of truth, but completely blown out of proportions.
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