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to make along story short, i don't like to show any feelings or emotion to anyone, i don't tell them my problems.
that way they cant see my weaknesses.
I've treated like dirt before, i got sick of it so i became me
i have what you can call friends, i hang out with them they tell me their secrets problems and else but i don't tell them anything i give them always a wise advice even though im a cold person but once in a while i would like to chat with someone and that he or she would actually listen of course i will also hear you so is there anyone feeling like me?
(btw i dont have any mental disease or issue just a regular guy)
^^ what he said.

evanescencefan91

It can be difficult to share your emotions espicially with guys, you don't have to, I mean if you really need to you can let off steam here ( I would recammend the what are you thinking thread Smile )
so don't worry about it, but if you want you can try easing in like maybe today I feel disgruntled becuase of an essay and shit
If your friends can't know your weaknesses, they aren't much friends, are they? The few people I'm close with know me very well. Although, I still keep a part of myself to just me. I don't see anything wrong with not showing feelings or emotions. Somethings we just feel more comfortable keeping to ourselves.
i said what you can call friends they trust in me but i dont trust them they havent done nothing wrong but im scared if i tell them any of my own personal problems or show emotions shit man i dont know what would happen thats why i got in here to let off steam :/
^^^You're trying to control everything around you by holding yourself in.

You can't.

Let go, man.

Just live life and let it surprise you.
you know, i wasnt born bitter, i wasnt born cold or holding everything, i used to be a "stable" person, i used to trust people, but shit it, ive been through a lot, i cant remember the last time i actually felt happy, many things happened, many disappointments, before i decided to stop being nice to everyone :/ im trying to let go here
I don't confide in anyone about my feelings because I currently don't have any friends, but I also was raised to think that as a man, you're not allowed to display your emotions. That it's not manly to show that you're hurt or to share your feelings. When I did have friends, I shared everything with them though, and I was a lot less stressed out than I am now. It just feels good to establish that connection with someone. You owe it to yourself to open up. You'll be much happier. Smile
(09-01-2010, 01:06 PM)indestructible Wrote: [ -> ]to make along story short, i don't like to show any feelings or emotion to anyone, i don't tell them my problems.
that way they cant see my weaknesses.
I've treated like dirt before, i got sick of it so i became me
i have what you can call friends, i hang out with them they tell me their secrets problems and else but i don't tell them anything i give them always a wise advice even though im a cold person but once in a while i would like to chat with someone and that he or she would actually listen of course i will also hear you so is there anyone feeling like me?
(btw i dont have any mental disease or issue just a regular guy)

Yes, I feel the same way. I don't want others to know how I feel.... but I listen to them if they have anything to say.
It is a lonely state, where you feel lonely everywhere.
Hi indestructible. In order to become closer with friends, you have to share a part of yourself with them. It may be a bit hard for you but it is relieving knowing that you have people you can depend on and can share your secrets and opinions with. Even a selected few are alright. You don't have to open yourself up to all your friends,
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