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(05-03-2014, 11:23 AM)TheSkaFish Wrote: [ -> ]Also, feeling tired. Not just tired of my situation, but physically tired all the time. I exercise 6 days per week and usually drink 2 to 3 big cups of coffee and 1 to 2 big cups of tea per day. But no matter what, I'm always tired. My energy level is always low and I feel very sleepy throughout the day. Sometimes I feel like I could go a whole day without getting out of bed. Anyone else feel this way?

Re the girl who's been pissing you off: Jaguarundi has given you good advice, now I'll boil it down for you. Those who repeatedly bring chaos & drama into your life are not worth your time. If this girl is that much of a dingbat & likes the wild boys, then you don't need her. Drop her like a mutated crab & look for someone better. It's a matter of odds, man. You have to go through a few lunatics, manipulators, & other undesirables before you find that Special Someone who you can love & who loves you. It takes time, persistence, & an ability to step back & look at the big picture every so often. I don't have that kinda patience but if you do, then I salute you.

Re your lack of energy: You might be overtraining. Six days a week sounds like too much. Don't bother with supplements (the FDA doesn't do squat to regulate the industry, so you can never be sure of what you're buying anyway); I presume you're a lifter, so scale it back to three or four times a week. If you don't rest sufficiently then your body will never get a chance to recover from workouts & build itself back up.
Yea, i guess i just have to take it day by day. The suns out, I guess I'll go bike ride or something.

(05-04-2014, 07:46 AM)MTrip Wrote: [ -> ]Re the girl who's been pissing you off: Jaguarundi has given you good advice, now I'll boil it down for you. Those who repeatedly bring chaos & drama into your life are not worth your time. If this girl is that much of a dingbat & likes the wild boys, then you don't need her. Drop her like a mutated crab & look for someone better.

Re your lack of energy: You might be overtraining. Six days a week sounds like too much. Don't bother with supplements (the FDA doesn't do squat to regulate the industry, so you can never be sure of what you're buying anyway); I presume you're a lifter, so scale it back to three or four times a week. If you don't rest sufficiently then your body will never get a chance to recover from workouts & build itself back up.

Mmm, no, I'm not a lifter. I run or bike, and I do various ab exercises and pushups with my goal of reaching 100 in a row and situps with a goal of reaching 200 in a row. I do pushups Mon, Wed, and Fri and situps Tues, Thurs, and Sat with Sunday as a total rest day. I don't have the money for a gym membership or equipment now, and think it would be a good idea to build up some initial strength before getting into that anyway.

I'm very reluctant to take any supplements or anything other than trying to eat a good diet. I just don't want to ingest pills and powders and stuff.

As far as the girl, I know she doesn't deserve me if she's going to be this way but I really don't think I'm going to meet someone better. She had everything I want in looks and personality and thoughts. I have met a very very few girls that could equal her but for the most part, it's all compromises from here. My friends don't know anyone and I've looked on the dating sites, everyone around here is just so plain by comparison. It's not even close. So I guess I'm done unless she changes her mind some day.
(05-04-2014, 07:53 AM)TheSkaFish Wrote: [ -> ]As far as the girl, I know she doesn't deserve me if she's going to be this way but I really don't think I'm going to meet someone better. She had everything I want in looks and personality and thoughts. I have met a very very few girls that could equal her but for the most part, it's all compromises from here. My friends don't know anyone and I've looked on the dating sites, everyone around here is just so plain by comparison. It's not even close. So I guess I'm done unless she changes her mind some day.

Are you aware that you are contradicting yourself in this paragraph? Regardless of what I've said in the past to you about this subject, plain and simple, if you doesn't want you, then she doesn't deserve you. I feel that is true for everyone, feelings about the specific person aside. So, if you KNOW she doesn't deserve you, then how can you say that you aren't going to meet anyone better? I'm sorry, but clearly she is NOT what you want in the thoughts department if she chose someone like you are describing.
If I remember your location correctly, there are almost 3 million people living in your city, 51.5% of which are women. That's 1.5 million women. Now, I know some of them are going to be taken and some are going to not be the age range you want, but that's a whole shitload of women to only be able to find ONE woman you feel is exactly what you want.
Get out there in your big ass city and find someone better. End of story :p
There's a lot of women around, sure. But as far as looks goes, there's no one that stands out. And as far as interests, it's mostly just club scene people or sports fans. And as you drift further away from the city, you find more country-ish types, that like trucks and guns and stuff like that. I'm not really into any of those things. I'm sure I could find someone that I could be comfortable enough with but no one that I'd actually feel excited and lucky to be with.
(05-04-2014, 04:33 AM)jaguarundi Wrote: [ -> ]Ok sweetie, I won't nag you anymore!Smile You aren't ready to cut her loose just yet, I think the girl was your first real love and it went deep for you.

But the jaguarundi cannot resist one last comment, before I leave it alone. You might want to read a couple or three times and store in the old grey cells for future reference.

You go on about the guy she went off with - an addict. Not like you.

But see, the addict we are seeing here - is you. All of this is your heroin. Best to kick the habit.

Wow.. well said.
Is this all my life is gonna be?

GraceBlossom

^ Everything ok?

Hoping my plan works :-/.
(05-04-2014, 01:54 PM)Nicolelt Wrote: [ -> ]Is this all my life is gonna be?

At least you have brownies. Big Grin

Aside from that, your life will be what you want it to be. You just have to figure out what you want and go get it.
I suppose it could be worse. One time I broke my ankle just rushing around over tired..

GraceBlossom

^ Ouch!

I really hope my friend doesn't spiral into a depression because of this and push me away :-(.
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