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Hi InSearchoPeople, I feel if you have to be alone on your birthday,
I hope your day got a bit better, or that some other day you can celebrate an extra-nice non-birthday… I also spent more than a few birthdays without seeing anyone or any greetings, at least your job should finish soon so you will be free to have a life outside of it.

For what is worth: a lot of people think that private messages on Facebook are more personal and "important" than a word on one's wall, so maybe that is why they wrote you in pm?

(11-10-2014, 11:36 AM)InSearchOfPeople Wrote: [ -> ]
(11-03-2014, 10:20 AM)VeganAtheist Wrote: [ -> ]


My job is not only transitional, but it also has unstable schedule and demands most of my time, that I physically can't meet with people other than from my job and the ones from my job seem to not have same goals and they just don't like me for whatever reasons.

It's my birthday and I feel so desperately lonely. People that I used to communicate with for a long time very closely and then fell apart with, didn't even care to say happy birthday to me (they are on my FB). Some wrote msg in private text as if they don't want to be seen associated with me. I want to cry and just all of this constant rejection to stop, it's like someone is eating me from inside and I am begging to stop...
I should stop trying to read too much into other people's chatters and looks. As long as I'm not treated with open hostility, there's not a thing to worry about.
My boyfriend's aunt told me that women's hormones go crazy when there's a full moon. LMAO She told me this while I was drunk-crying.
It's always sad when one part of a pair drags everything down. I loved that website for awhile because it was fresh, honest, spiritual, insightful, and friendly towards introverts and alternatives in its articles, but the guy's girlfriend posts the same pop positivity dregs and sweeping judgments as everyone else lately. Jarring to read about shamanism in the modern world, psychology, and pride in oneself and one's choices and then come back the next day to what's essentially a finger being shaken in our faces over our choices in handling issues of introversion and mental health.

It's really turning me off the site, and I've just stopped reading updates if I see her name on them. The rest of the articles gave me some motivation and pride in a difficult time, but it doesn't feel like a "sanctuary" anymore. I've considered saying something in the interests of the very unique website they share, but there's really nothing to say that wouldn't be rude and divisive.

johnny196775Again

my hair is falling out because of stress.
Just another one of my waiting-for-the-train stories...

I was on my way to the train station as usual to kill those 1.5 hours till I can finally return home. Not even a minute after I sat down a young woman with a big suitcase came around addressed me: "Hey, can I talk to you?". I just replied "Sure" and she sat down next to me. She told me she had an argument with her boyfriend and he (literally) kicked her in the process - which is why she packed her bags and left.

I have no idea what it was about or if was just your typical guy-suddenly-turns-into-an-asshole scenario. Doesn't matter anyway...she didn't want to report him to the police cause she 'doesn't rat anybody out' and the local woman's centre wouldn't let her in for exactly this reason. She didn't know where to go and I merely told her where the next bigger cities are, where shelters might be and how far she could get by train while dodging the fare - she had no money left.

Oddly enough she didn't ask me for any which made her story somehow more credible. Maybe she just needed someone to listen and I did exactly that. I had no real advice to give her though - except to swallow her pride and just report the damn guy so she'll have a roof above her head for the night. In the end she kept pacing up and down along the platform trying to think of a way out of her misery. And I just sat there quietly while the sun went down.

After an hour she seemed to have sorted her thoughts and left the station. She even waved me goodbye and I waved back - completely puzzled. I wonder how things turned out for her...
(11-13-2014, 04:30 AM)Rodent Wrote: [ -> ]Just another one of my waiting-for-the-train stories...

I was on my way to the train station as usual to kill those 1.5 hours till I can finally return home. Not even a minute after I sat down a young woman with a big suitcase came around addressed me: "Hey, can I talk to you?". I just replied "Sure" and she sat down next to me. She told me she had an argument with her boyfriend and he (literally) kicked her in the process - which is why she packed her bags and left.

I have no idea what it was about or if was just your typical guy-suddenly-turns-into-an-asshole scenario. Doesn't matter anyway...she didn't want to report him to the police cause she 'doesn't rat anybody out' and the local woman's centre wouldn't let her in for exactly this reason. She didn't know where to go and I merely told her where the next bigger cities are, where shelters might be and how far she could get by train while dodging the fare - she had no money left.

Oddly enough she didn't ask me for any which made her story somehow more credible. Maybe she just needed someone to listen and I did exactly that. I had no real advice to give her though - except to swallow her pride and just report the damn guy so she'll have a roof above her head for the night. In the end she kept pacing up and down along the platform trying to think of a way out of her misery. And I just sat there quietly while the sun went down.

After an hour she seemed to have sorted her thoughts and left the station. She even waved me goodbye and I waved back - completely puzzled. I wonder how things turned out for her...

Let's hope for the best. Thank you for doing this. Smile
I hope we'll go to the Boiling Crab on Saturday.
(11-14-2014, 03:45 PM)Lilith Wrote: [ -> ]I hope we'll go to the Boiling Crab on Saturday.

The Boiling Crab? A seafood restaurant?
(11-14-2014, 03:48 PM)Mr Seal The Albatros Wrote: [ -> ]
(11-14-2014, 03:45 PM)Lilith Wrote: [ -> ]I hope we'll go to the Boiling Crab on Saturday.

The Boiling Crab? A seafood restaurant?


YES!!!!! http://www.yelp.com/biz/the-boiling-crab...nd-heights
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