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My daughter earlier this afternoon was going to meet a fellow off the website plenty of fish. They were going to meet at a restaurant. He texted her that he was on his way. My daughter asked me to come for protection purposes. Even though she's 20 but she wanted me there still,So I sat at a table with a friend of mine a few feet back to make it not as obvious I will be observing.

So she waits, he doesn't show up, okay the guy must be running late? So we continue to drink our sodas talking while she is waiting. Some more time goes by, no sign of this guy so she gets a little worried. I texted her to calm down and call him. She did no answer. More time goes by and again no sign of him. Now she's getting mad. So she went back on the website to check his status which read "online now" so she messages him on there, then a message pops up saying "this user has block you" and then the waterworks comes out of her.

I felt so terrible for her. The rest of the afternoon she's sitting in her room crying,confused,and baffled that someone would do this too someone. I'm at a lost for words. I can only tell her so much to forget him he's not worth it if he is a piece of shit too you. But she's not hearing that right now.

This person is a scumbag to do this to anyone!!

Paraiyar

Maybe he has social anxiety and freaked out over it?
(07-27-2016, 07:34 AM)Paraiyar Wrote: [ -> ]Maybe he has social anxiety and freaked out over it?

Reguardless he could of just texted her to let her know not just show up and block her.

Paraiyar

(07-27-2016, 07:51 AM)soresoul Wrote: [ -> ]
(07-27-2016, 07:34 AM)Paraiyar Wrote: [ -> ]Maybe he has social anxiety and freaked out over it?

Reguardless he could of just texted her to let her know not just show up and block her.

Yeah, dick move on his part but maybe he didn't even the guts to do that.
I'm wondering if he showed up and noticed your daughter talking to you and your friend, figured *he* was being set up somehow, freaked, left, and blocked your daughter because he's upset. I don't know - another theory for you at least. Regardless of the 'why's' of the situation, it's still a childish move on his part...
(07-27-2016, 08:20 AM)ringwood Wrote: [ -> ]I'm wondering if he showed up and noticed your daughter talking to you and your friend, figured *he* was being set up somehow, freaked, left, and blocked your daughter because he's upset. I don't know - another theory for you at least. Regardless of the 'why's' of the situation, it's still a childish move on his part...

If that was the case, then he pulled a fast one. We did drove seperate cars, and I walked in 5 minutes after she got there. It was a seat yourself anywhere establishment place.
(07-27-2016, 08:20 AM)ringwood Wrote: [ -> ]I'm wondering if he showed up and noticed your daughter talking to you and your friend, figured *he* was being set up somehow, freaked, left, and blocked your daughter because he's upset. I don't know - another theory for you at least. Regardless of the 'why's' of the situation, it's still a childish move on his part...


My thought exactly
(07-27-2016, 09:06 AM)Lacrecia Wrote: [ -> ]My thought exactly

He is a jerk. But POF. Gosh no. There is this whole thing on the internet called nasty trolls. They hide behind the screen and try to hurt others (the way they were hurt) I am guessing he is scared of rejection himself and just does that kind of thing to hundreds of women. She should put all her internet dating sites away right now. That is no way to date. In its early hay day you could meet normal people on the net but NO longer.

It is no reflection on your daughter.

Why are people so cruel? Because they can be.
(07-27-2016, 09:50 AM)EmilyFoxSeaton Wrote: [ -> ]
(07-27-2016, 09:06 AM)Lacrecia Wrote: [ -> ]My thought exactly

He is a jerk. But POF. Gosh no. There is this whole thing on the internet called nasty trolls. They hide behind the screen and try to hurt others (the way they were hurt) I am guessing he is scared of rejection himself and just does that kind of thing to hundreds of women. She should put all her internet dating sites away right now. That is no way to date. In its early hay day you could meet normal people on the net but NO longer.

It is no reflection on your daughter.

Why are people so cruel? Because they can be.

I agree. I'm too old for that dating bullshit. I'm glad that I met my loving lady the way we did. We both had the same common interest and honestly, I just don't see myself with any other lady let alone dating online. But I get it, it's hard to meet people in a scene or the real world because people can be up front judgemental on looks. I guess in a way online dating is an okay way to get to know each other, but yet people are fake on there too. I dunno...
(07-27-2016, 08:20 AM)ringwood Wrote: [ -> ]I'm wondering if he showed up and noticed your daughter talking to you and your friend, figured *he* was being set up somehow, freaked, left, and blocked your daughter because he's upset. I don't know - another theory for you at least. Regardless of the 'why's' of the situation, it's still a childish move on his part...

It's more likely he's just a dick who likes to mess with people.

I don't think she needs him to be there in a near public place like a restaurant though. If someone told me that they wanted their father there observing in order to feel safe, I would politely decline. It would feel incredibly awkward.
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