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Hi there
I'm a college student(22m), and I pretend to be an extrovert, it's tiring.
I only trust people on the Internet, cus there aren't any connections between us other than the screen.
I'd really like to chat with you and you and all of you.


I live in China(UTC +8),
so you can find me at around:
19:00 ~ 09:00     [Washington, DC]
01:00 ~ 15:00     [Germany]
welcome to the forums Smile
"I only trust people on the Internet, cus there aren't any connections between us other than the screen."

That's what you think?

I've found I have touched too many souls, instead. If they were real, I think I loved too many I couldn't reach for the physical distance but, If we (they and I) were sit next to the other, we probably had ignored we had too many things in common and, of course, that screen was not a wall to be liked or hugged.

The emotional connection, for me, it's highly valuable. Yet there are bunches who liked their "hide & seek" games.
Welcome! ❤️
(11-14-2019, 09:25 PM)Diagnosed Wrote: [ -> ]"I only trust people on the Internet, cus there aren't any connections between us other than the screen."

That's what you think?

I've found I have touched too many souls, instead. If they were real, I think I loved too many I couldn't reach for the physical distance but, If we (they and I) were sit next to the other, we probably had ignored we had too many things in common and, of course, that screen was not a wall to be liked or hugged.

The emotional connection, for me, it's highly valuable. Yet there are bunches who liked their "hide & seek" games.

Oh yeah, I value the emotional connection a lot. The screen is like a filter, it blocks out awkwardness, insecurity, and so much more; only thoughts and feelings pass through it.
don't pretend just be you.
welcome!  Smile
Hi! :-)
What makes you pretend to be an extrovert, if you don't mind me asking?
(11-16-2019, 03:56 AM)cozy Wrote: [ -> ]Hi! :-)
What makes you pretend to be an extrovert, if you don't mind me asking?

I have serious trust issues.
My therapist suggested me to make friends, and try to "trust them".

Now I end up making lots of friends but trusting none of them.
It wasn't hard to make them feel like I trust them,
be outgoing & bright,
and when I share personal stuffs, like feelings, I put on my "sincere" face,
and I say what they wanna hear, but not all the time, so it seems genuine.

It's tiring. I want it all to end.

Thanks for asking, it feels good to let it out. Smile
(11-14-2019, 08:52 PM)rudy scott Wrote: [ -> ]Hi there
I'm a college student(22m), and I pretend to be an extrovert, it's tiring.
I only trust people on the Internet, cus there aren't any connections between us other than the screen.
I'd really like to chat with you and you and all of you.


I live in China(UTC +8),
so you can find me at around:
19:00 ~ 09:00     [Washington, DC]
01:00 ~ 15:00     [Germany]

Whoa! China! It's kind of far... But are you Chinese, or just there for work?

I'm not close either... I'm in South America.

Cheers,
Gus
(11-16-2019, 11:59 PM)GustavusMacer Wrote: [ -> ]
(11-14-2019, 08:52 PM)rudy scott Wrote: [ -> ]Hi there
I'm a college student(22m), and I pretend to be an extrovert, it's tiring.
I only trust people on the Internet, cus there aren't any connections between us other than the screen.
I'd really like to chat with you and you and all of you.


I live in China(UTC +8),
so you can find me at around:
19:00 ~ 09:00     [Washington, DC]
01:00 ~ 15:00     [Germany]

Whoa! China! It's kind of far... But are you Chinese, or just there for work?

I'm not close either... I'm in South America.

Cheers,
Gus
Yeah I'm Chinese.
And we're on the opposite sides of the earth!
Your breakfast time will be my dinner time Toungue
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