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i just met someone over the internet. ive been talking to her and seen her pic and shes really cute... she lives around here and etc,,,

but i don't kno if she wants to "date" or just "hang out"
i dont know if we are actually compatible... we only talked online.

would it ruin things if i just straight up ask her if she has bf already or if shes serious or just flirting around


but im in my loneliest state of mind possible right now... i really need a girlfriend...

should i even try to meet her or just forget about it all together??


need advice! your past experiences with online dating! please!


im so fuckin lonely.
maybe probe her....

you know how it is..man. You had a GF before.

it's like putting your hands on her hips..if she dosn't push you way...
then you put your arms around waist..if she dosn't push you away and actaully rest her haed on your shoulders...
then you can try putting your hands on her ass Toungue

maybe just mention that you would like to meet her in person someday...don't ask her. Just mention it.
See how she response to that.
just go with the flow... meet up with her, don't have any expectations, and have fun. If you guys click in person... give it sometime, hang out and see where things lead to. When you are out, during conversation, you can ask her if she has a BF, etc.. but don't make it too pushy or overbearing.. just have fun. Think of it as meeting up with a new friend and see where it goes. Good luck Smile
Just see how it goes. If you want to talk about something, it will usually present itself in someway. Don't force a topic into the conversation. and don't just say "Do you have a bf" or "I am crazy about you wanna go out". Use some guile. (Betting you already know but just thought I'd throw that out there to be sure)
Just go for it. What do you have to lose?

If she lives close enough to you that you can see her with some regularity, then by all means, at least try it out and see where it leads. Big Grin
My various experiences meeting women online have all ranged from Moderately Disappointing to Purely Catastrophic.

But I've posted about all that before and the thought of regurgitating it to feast upon once more is a bit tiring. I can say I have yet to see the same girl more than once and rarely do they tell me why if I bother to ask them.


It never hurts to try. I'm still trying. I've got a coffee date tomorrow with a girl off craigslist. I think I know what'll happen, but sometimes life brings surprises. So I say go for it, especially if it's a 'first' for you, because a 'first' is always progress unless it's downright harmful or destructive. Online dating really works out for some people, and that could include you for all you know.
Well, I'd ask. No harm in asking. Or ask if she wants to go get something to eat or something. I won't comment on the "need" a girlfriend, because you don't "need" one. You want one. That desperation comes off, you know.
Okay... you could ask her, and know for certain. OR... you could say nothing and always wonder with regret.

shells

I met a guy over the internet, met him in person, and then he became my boyfriend shortly thereafter.

We just had our two-year anniversary of being together in February. Smile
(04-17-2010, 10:47 PM)SighX99 Wrote: [ -> ]i just met someone over the internet. ive been talking to her and seen her pic and shes really cute... she lives around here and etc,,,

but i don't kno if she wants to "date" or just "hang out"
i dont know if we are actually compatible... we only talked online.

would it ruin things if i just straight up ask her if she has bf already or if shes serious or just flirting around


but im in my loneliest state of mind possible right now... i really need a girlfriend...

should i even try to meet her or just forget about it all together??


need advice! your past experiences with online dating! please!


im so fuckin lonely.

Im lonely as well, and have considered using online to meet a girl. However, last time I tried was back in the late 90s (remember Love @ AOL). This girl sent me her pics online, and she looked like a movie star. In person she ended up looking like a tv star... Mr. Ed to be specific.
(04-18-2010, 11:51 AM)shells Wrote: [ -> ]I met a guy over the internet, met him in person, and then he became my boyfriend shortly thereafter.

We just had our two-year anniversary of being together in February. Smile

Thats awesome Smile
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