An unrequited one.
I can easily do it if I know a person of my interest has a partner or if I'm rejected.
But I've never heared anything about his gf. That's why I have a stupid thought "what if I have a chance". Thinking logically, I don't.
Anyway I don't know how to be rejected. If I just ask: "do you have a gf" - it's weird, and if the answer is "no" nothing will change for me.
If I say: "Can you please reject me" - it's even more weird, and I possibly should add: "it will be ok and we can just forget it all". It's even more weird than more weird. I don't think talking to him is a good idea as fas as I don't have a suitable plan. Also I don't want to bother or to offend him. It's not his fault and not his problem.
The best way is just to fall out of love. But I have no idea how to do it.
I've tried not to communicate and not to think, a few years didn't change anything. Falling in love(also unrequited of course)) with others - it helps for a few weeks then I fall out. I feel like I'm a teen experiencing a first love, but I'm not and there should be a way the adults solve such the problems.
I used to think love is something for the young people and in some way I feel like I shouldn't be in love at all, like I'm trying to steal something I'm not supposed and don't have a right to have.
And the worst is the fact that we were friends and maybe still are. Maybe it's not a love, just some good feeling to a friend(haha a kind of a special good friendly feeling that appears only for this one) or an imagination or whatever?
Sorry for so many words.
Do you have any advices?
I can easily do it if I know a person of my interest has a partner or if I'm rejected.
But I've never heared anything about his gf. That's why I have a stupid thought "what if I have a chance". Thinking logically, I don't.
Anyway I don't know how to be rejected. If I just ask: "do you have a gf" - it's weird, and if the answer is "no" nothing will change for me.
If I say: "Can you please reject me" - it's even more weird, and I possibly should add: "it will be ok and we can just forget it all". It's even more weird than more weird. I don't think talking to him is a good idea as fas as I don't have a suitable plan. Also I don't want to bother or to offend him. It's not his fault and not his problem.
The best way is just to fall out of love. But I have no idea how to do it.
I've tried not to communicate and not to think, a few years didn't change anything. Falling in love(also unrequited of course)) with others - it helps for a few weeks then I fall out. I feel like I'm a teen experiencing a first love, but I'm not and there should be a way the adults solve such the problems.
I used to think love is something for the young people and in some way I feel like I shouldn't be in love at all, like I'm trying to steal something I'm not supposed and don't have a right to have.
And the worst is the fact that we were friends and maybe still are. Maybe it's not a love, just some good feeling to a friend
Sorry for so many words.
Do you have any advices?