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Francis

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First an introduction; I'm a 26 year old man on a mission to heal the world. I'm going to be a Doctor, find a soul mate, and form a family. And if I'm not a total failure, I will have saved several souls and advanced medicine by 100 years by the time I depart to the further shore.

Truth be told, the person im looking for is an outlier and like 10% of the global population, so its not anyone/everyone. Since friendship/love is idealistic, it should meet certain parameters. 21-35 years old. Male or female. Sanity needed, or I'll heal your mind into sanity. Openess (Im not interested in someone who hides.) And talkative, with original ideas/thinking. Musically inclined is a must. He/she is well read, certainly curious, empathetic, hopeful, pragmatic, intelligent, genius?, with a strong will, drive, determination, altruism, love, and playful. AND probably deeply hurt and needing a hug.

The person I want to befriend is someone who is intent on doing something with their life, who is idealistic, and has been looking for a real friend for a long time (It seems like I've been searching since I was born.) This means they reply to texts on a consistent basis, since it's obvious anyone who needs a friend will put effort in. Already know that people who put no effort lead to nothing good. I don't waste my time, and the person I'm looking for doesn't either.

If you're lonely and need a friend similar to what I've wrote, download discord and send me a chat at Fran96#2783. From there we can migrate to Telegram or whatever instant messaging app you prefer. Hopefuly, it leads to a long lasting friendship that feels right and makes us feel alive. I'm warm and safe, and am looking for someone warm and safe, so the only hurt you can take away is IF it doesn't work, but if you're respecting my time I'll let you know and NOT ghost. I'll respect you and your time.
 
I'll respect you and your time.
Only if they fall into your high demands....

Don't get me wrong, we all want something particular, but to just say "fresia you" to whoever doesn't meet your guidelines? That's kind of short sighted, don't you think? You aren't picking the perfect apple here, we are human beings, as are you and we all have aspects that could potentially make an excellent friend, so why would you limit yourself to something so...by your own words...rare?

Anyway, welcome to the forum.
 
You know, I remember a post not so long ago by a woman of a similar age that had the same spirit as this one. Hell some of the words are repeated verbatim. If you can find her, you guys would be a good match.
 
You know, I remember a post not so long ago by a woman of a similar age that had the same spirit as this one. Hell some of the words are repeated verbatim. If you can find her, you guys would be a good match.

guess the pandemic had a part in waking up some of us 20 year olds out of our complacency.

talked to her and it didn't work out btw. funny, I know.
 
And if I'm not a total failure, I will have saved several souls and advanced medicine by 100 years by the time I depart to the further shore.

What medical advancement are you working towards? I'm intrigued what's your field?
 
Does me being a homocidal maniac with narrissistic tendencies disqualify me? I think that would put me in the 5% or so outlier range. I do shower once a week or so even if I don't need it. Oh crap, I'm too old. **** so close. I thought we were a good match there for awhile. Oh well, maybe someone else can be my friend. My sock puppet isn't doing it for me any more. Maybe I shouldn't use her for other things. ;) I thought about visiting the local jails / prisons. I propably already know someone there. So, that might make things easier.

IMO, AFTER you become a doctor you can be picky. But, for now.....................
 
Does me being a homocidal maniac with narrissistic tendencies disqualify me? I think that would put me in the 5% or so outlier range. I do shower once a week or so even if I don't need it. Oh crap, I'm too old. **** so close. I thought we were a good match there for awhile. Oh well, maybe someone else can be my friend. My sock puppet isn't doing it for me any more. Maybe I shouldn't use her for other things. ;) I thought about visiting the local jails / prisons. I propably already know someone there. So, that might make things easier.

IMO, AFTER you become a doctor you can be picky. But, for now.....................

Yes, I already assessed you as a narcisist, notice how you're dragging the attention towards yourself, there are eight 'I's with a my and 3 me's...in just one paragraph! So you're archetype is N001.

N=Narcisist.
100= the emotional polarities you can handle.

So that archetypes is all about victimization, so that you bend things towards your center of gravity, which is what your post is about. A N001 character like you is Izuko Midoriya from the anime My Hero Academia.

And at the end you tried to N100 intimidate me to try and make yourself look bigger, which is what your type always does. N100 is the same archetype as Goku, Goldilocks, and Winnie The Pooh. 'Spoiled brat wants things his way." That includes intimidation, flexing, and pressuring to assert dominance. Basically you're ballistic.

You can always try to be less of a shitty narcisist though. I have some techniques for healing that, basically information, so that once you're aware of why you do things you can correct yourself and solve the problems in your life (since no one can stand narcisists for obvious reasons.)
 
Yes, I already assessed you as a narcisist, notice how you're dragging the attention towards yourself, there are eight 'I's with a my and 3 me's...in just one paragraph! So you're archetype is N001.

N=Narcisist.
100= the emotional polarities you can handle.

So that archetypes is all about victimization, so that you bend things towards your center of gravity, which is what your post is about. A N001 character like you is Izuko Midoriya from the anime My Hero Academia.

And at the end you tried to N100 intimidate me to try and make yourself look bigger, which is what your type always does. N100 is the same archetype as Goku, Goldilocks, and Winnie The Pooh. 'Spoiled brat wants things his way." That includes intimidation, flexing, and pressuring to assert dominance. Basically you're ballistic.

You can always try to be less of a shitty narcisist though. I have some techniques for healing that, basically information, so that once you're aware of why you do things you can correct yourself and solve the problems in your life (since no one can stand narcisists for obvious reasons.)

Can you give me tips about narcissism?
 
Can you give me tips about narcissism?

The unifying principle in narcisists is closeness, they try to pull everyone and everything closer towards their centers of gravity. N000 the baseline for narcisists contains closeness and clique boasting<---like Finished did mentioning his prison friends. The way Narcisists brains functions is from outside to inside, taking things from people for themselves (weither it be attention, resources, praise, space, etc.) Thats why solpisism is a N110 concept where no one or anything exists but oneself (N110 'Death star collapses on its own center of gravity' is the archetype Nietzche was btw, so also contains N100 'always bigger' which is the emotional polarity the concept of the ubermensch is in.)

The worst thing for a narcisist is to have a weak, unattractive center of gravity, no magneticism and being susceptible to bending to bigger centers, and that's where the archetype of N001 is at; it has torture, victimization, neediness, and kneeling (bending to a bigger center's magnetism.) So it's torturous for a narcisist to lack N010 attractiveness and not gravitating anyone closer. The goal for Finished and others who are stuck in that emotional polarity is to develop a better personality by activating more slots. N111 is Empire Maker, like prince Freeza of Dragon Ball Z, also Stalin, and Elon Musk. They keep their own twistedness in check while keeping others twistedness out of their centers, polishing things around them like gems to be displayed in a hall of fame, like this narcisist song;



The following is a N001 song where Cee Lo Green tortures himself because he finds himself lacking N010 attractiveness and finds himself having to bow down to someone else's center. He's envious so he tortures the woman by cursing at her, spitefulness being a core value of narcisists. He even breaks down crying at the end of the song, dying from the weight of humiliation. The whole point about narcisism is ego.

 
Yes, I already assessed you as a narcisist, notice how you're dragging the attention towards yourself, there are eight 'I's with a my and 3 me's...in just one paragraph! So you're archetype is N001.

N=Narcisist.
100= the emotional polarities you can handle.

So that archetypes is all about victimization, so that you bend things towards your center of gravity, which is what your post is about. A N001 character like you is Izuko Midoriya from the anime My Hero Academia.

And at the end you tried to N100 intimidate me to try and make yourself look bigger, which is what your type always does. N100 is the same archetype as Goku, Goldilocks, and Winnie The Pooh. 'Spoiled brat wants things his way." That includes intimidation, flexing, and pressuring to assert dominance. Basically you're ballistic.

You can always try to be less of a shitty narcisist though. I have some techniques for healing that, basically information, so that once you're aware of why you do things you can correct yourself and solve the problems in your life (since no one can stand narcisists for obvious reasons.)
I like Winnie the Pooh. He is awesome! I also like curious George. He always makes me smile while trying to steal the focus. I like to eat tacos. Thanks for the encouragement.

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Can you give me tips about narcissism?
I am hoping you meant on how to avoid being entrapped by one versus how to become one...? LOLOL

Beyond that... I think the OP is pretty well versed considering I have absolutely NO idea what his credentials are sans a Discord account. :D :D

Even in my advanced years with tons of hours of reading and a minor in Psychology, I still could not have determined @Finished was a narcissist and I've been on this board for a while now. I just thought he was a person who uses awkward humor when he doesn't really know what to say? I say "awkward" very tongue-in-cheek, my friend, because I tend to chuckle every time I read your responses.

*in my REALLY old lady voice, "You know, son, I would've only pegged you for a smart ass, not a narcissist!"

@Francis, I wish you luck on your journey, young man! May you find that one true friend you're looking for in life! Until then, maybe you can hang with the other lonely people on this board that you joined.
 
I like Winnie the Pooh. He is awesome! I also like curious George. He always makes me smile while trying to steal the focus. I like to eat tacos. Thanks for the encouragement.

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Love that curious George gif! :D
Gave me a little chuckle.
I am hoping you meant on how to avoid being entrapped by one versus how to become one...? LOLOL

Beyond that... I think the OP is pretty well versed considering I have absolutely NO idea what his credentials are sans a Discord account. :D :D

Even in my advanced years with tons of hours of reading and a minor in Psychology, I still could not have determined @Finished was a narcissist and I've been on this board for a while now. I just thought he was a person who uses awkward humor when he doesn't really know what to say? I say "awkward" very tongue-in-cheek, my friend, because I tend to chuckle every time I read your responses.

*in my REALLY old lady voice, "You know, son, I would've only pegged you for a smart ass, not a narcissist!"

@Francis, I wish you luck on your journey, young man! May you find that one true friend you're looking for in life! Until then, maybe you can hang with the other lonely people on this board that you joined.
Not versed in psychology but i agree with your assessment. Finished is just a mean old koala. :p
 
I am hoping you meant on how to avoid being entrapped by one versus how to become one...? LOLOL

Beyond that... I think the OP is pretty well versed considering I have absolutely NO idea what his credentials are sans a Discord account. :D :D

Even in my advanced years with tons of hours of reading and a minor in Psychology, I still could not have determined @Finished was a narcissist and I've been on this board for a while now. I just thought he was a person who uses awkward humor when he doesn't really know what to say? I say "awkward" very tongue-in-cheek, my friend, because I tend to chuckle every time I read your responses.

*in my REALLY old lady voice, "You know, son, I would've only pegged you for a smart ass, not a narcissist!"

@Francis, I wish you luck on your journey, young man! May you find that one true friend you're looking for in life! Until then, maybe you can hang with the other lonely people on this board that you joined.
I think I am one a lot of that stuff sounds like me. I don't wanna be shitty.
 
I am hoping you meant on how to avoid being entrapped by one versus how to become one...? LOLOL

Beyond that... I think the OP is pretty well versed considering I have absolutely NO idea what his credentials are sans a Discord account. :D :D

Even in my advanced years with tons of hours of reading and a minor in Psychology, I still could not have determined @Finished was a narcissist and I've been on this board for a while now. I just thought he was a person who uses awkward humor when he doesn't really know what to say? I say "awkward" very tongue-in-cheek, my friend, because I tend to chuckle every time I read your responses.

*in my REALLY old lady voice, "You know, son, I would've only pegged you for a smart ass, not a narcissist!"

@Francis, I wish you luck on your journey, young man! May you find that one true friend you're looking for in life! Until then, maybe you can hang with the other lonely people on this board that you joined.
OP is either trolling for reactions or can't take deserved mockery. Some truly gargantuan levels of projection on display here anyway.
 
I think I am one a lot of that stuff sounds like me. I don't wanna be shitty.
Well, honestly, knowing yourself is one of the first steps to trying to make changes!
A true narcissist is resistant to change because at their core, they don't believe anything is wrong with THEM, it's the rest of the world. They justify their actions in their own mind and then believe it as their reality. It is a text book personality disorder.
Do you get mad when people set boundaries with you? I mean "healthy" boundaries.

Most people with personality disorders are formed by their interactions throughout life. An insecure attachment upbringing is a known pre-cursor for narcissism.
Have you ever attended individual therapy?
 
So OP is trolling, but Finished isn't? How does that work?

OP was honest in what he wants. Will it limit his choices? Yes, most definitely. He's missing out on getting to know a lot of good people, but that's no different than wanting specifics in a romantic relationship that are hard to come by.

You are basing this person being a troll on 9 posts. Hardly enough to determine anything...also, Finished called himself a narcissist first, OP was just giving a more clinical assessment.
 
Well, honestly, knowing yourself is one of the first steps to trying to make changes!
A true narcissist is resistant to change because at their core, they don't believe anything is wrong with THEM, it's the rest of the world. They justify their actions in their own mind and then believe it as their reality. It is a text book personality disorder.
Do you get mad when people set boundaries with you? I mean "healthy" boundaries.

Most people with personality disorders are formed by their interactions throughout life. An insecure attachment upbringing is a known pre-cursor for narcissism.
Have you ever attended individual therapy?
I very very very recently realized I don't really know what healthy boundaries are and that I'm probably constantly crossing them.

Yea I mean it's good to know it's a problem I guess but knowing what to do better only goes so far. I can contain it pretty well but like I just wear on myself or if I try to be friends with happy well adjusted people I'll eventually wear on them.

"An insecure attachment upbringing" yep.

My history with theraphy is probably tmi.
 

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