Recent content by advancedip

My naive-ness is the reason why I run away from friendships. Here is the reason why. My story. I can't even manage to hold a friendship. Most of my friendships last 6 months. It's mostly hobbies and some common interest. Once I open my mouth, I feel like they know that I am a loner and very...

I’m like you. In high school, I just focused on going to school and came home playing video games. I was really stupid back then. Now I’m a adult, just recently I wanted to make friends. It looks like I have a lot to learn. So every month I learn social skills from people and I change as a...

How do people know I am a Loner???? People can sense it. It makes me feel like im a social outcast. Everyone I talk to makes fun of me saying I have no friends. But I feel like they have some pity for me. I am in a group chat in college, they are the only people I talk to. They always joking...

You still lived a better life than me. You got the chance to experience marriage. I have nothing. I never had a friend in my whole entire life. My social skills sucks, I don't know typical social norms, and I am naive. This is just an assumption. I assume because of my social skills people...

The time is that it will get harder and harder to make friends as you age. Especially when I am so young that I should be having fun with friends right now. But I can't because I have no friends. So I sit in my room suffering from loneliness. I can see a lot of people on this forums kind of...

Society plays a huge role on the term loner. No one should be proud of being a loner. Society outside of these forums consider us loners as losers. To them, loners and losers means the same thing. We are loners so we try to stay positive and say "we are loners but not losers." It's more of a...

That's not my problem. I do the avoiding because I don't want to appear as this loner in their social group. I just want to be me without them knowing I am a loner. I know I can make friends, I describe myself as a perfect person. I am never rude to anyone and respect everyone. I will go out of...

Nope. Every friend I made. They are the nicest people in the world. It's not about bullying. It's about me unable to hide my social status. I leave my friends because once they assume and consider me as a loner. I don't want to be that person in the group where I am a loner. That's how you...

I want to make friends but every time they assume I am a loner. I just want to run away. I don't want to be that guy in the group where I am recognized a loner. It's probably the fact that I have so much time on my hands that I want to spend time with them only. Because I have no friends, I want...

I think you misunderstood. The 2 girls turned cold after I met their friends/went to a EDC club. I start conversations with them and we never have a long conversation anymore. It always goes like, I’m very busy when I try to socialize them. After a lot of convo rejection, I thought it was to...

The thing is, I am not shy to converse with people. I don’t have a shyness disorder. I want to know why people can assume I have no friends. I help people out, I text immediately, I am kind, honest, trustworthy, and confident. There is nothing wrong with me. The only problem is that people...

Also I met 2 girls in college. One was smart and one was the one that doesn't care about school and parties all day. Damm The smart girl introduced me to her friends and I just sat there awkwardly quiet. Not knowing what to talk about. I was honest with her up front. I told her "I don't have...

I am fine being alone. I been living alone all my life. I never had a friend so I never got the chance to build my social skills. I want to come out of my shell and start making friends. It makes me jealous that people are having fun with their friends. How I act in an interaction? I am really...

Everyone that I talk to instantly know that I am a loner. All my coworkers know I am a loner. My classmates know I am a loner. Is it because I have no social skills? How can I mask this? How can I look like I have friends even when I don't. I don't know about you but its kind of insulting...