Recent content by BadLifeChoices

Also a bi male, in a long term relationship with a woman. We're poly, and she's bi also, so we've both dated other people of assorted genders from time to time. The worst part of it is that no one believes I'm bi, even people who've seen me engaging in PDA with dudes. (Thankfully I live in...

ST:TNG and DS9, X-Files, NYPD Blue. I enjoyed ST:Voyager but I gave up after that episode where Paris and Janeway turned into lizards and had freaky lizard sex. Absolutely Fabulous. Ren & Stimpy. I missed Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Babylon 5 so I'm watching them now.

I'd assume it was some sort of scam, or an attempt to get me to visit some dubious website that would try to download malware onto my PC.

Those guys get off on the shock, indignation, and disgust from their victims. It's a way of asserting power.

Nice to know I wasn't the only person who noticed this.

I've found that people where I live (Boston) don't "make friends", they "network". They identify someone who can do something useful for them or who can provide access to something they want. They then suck up to that person, and offer to do something for the other person in return, in hopes...

"You're just not thinking positively enough!" is usually a nasty combination of the fallacy of Magical Thinking and Just World Fallacy.

I was. I had quite a few facebook friends. I finally got off of facebook out of privacy concerns. I'm not a fan of their business practices and I want as little to do with them as poassible. Also I realized that a lot of my FB friends were people I routinely used to socialize with in person...

It's very possible to be lonely while married. Lots of people are married to spouses who stopped putting emotional labor into the marriage long ago. They don't care how their partner's day went. If their partner says anything, good or bad, it's met with negativity and harsh criticism...

New member, 53/M/Boston.