Recent content by clover4you

i totally agree with you all. i just wish i could change myself. i feel stuck in a loop. 

i am like this too. and i've seen others say/do similar things as me but they don't care, they're on to the next thought. i wonder why we put ourselves under a microscope and get annoyed and others just go with the flow

I feel that way too about others. But aren't we supposed to accept people for who they are?  Do you accept yourself?  Chances are you've done similar things as the people you refer to ******** because you're human too.

I personally feel that the majority of people are in relationships and don't have many friends because their partner is their primary focus.

Preferably topics that don't include your personal life?

I agree. I believe as a survival tactic we have been programmed to focus on the negative so that we can fix whatever is causing our issues/threat to our survival. However in America we are fortunate enough not to exposed to many issues that others are exposed to. I've been constantly thinking...

That's very interesting that you say that because I observe many people being well liked just so that others can use them for whatever reason. i left fb too because i felt everything about it was very fake. stats said people on fb are more likely to be depressed because they feel others have...

I'm truly sorry for your loss. I'm very close to my mom so I can only imagine. I hope everything is going okay for you. For a hobby I would recommend volunteering with the homeless because it reminds you of what blessings you have while also helping others which is a great feeling. Are you...

It is better to have loved and lost than never to loved at all because you got to experience love. I would suggest reaching out to friends if you went through a recent break up. just remember through this past relationship you have learned better what you want in a future relationship and will...

I really appreciate you checking in on me. that's very kind of you. how are you? do you want to share some of your troubles with us? I am okay. I've been trying hard not to complain but find myself without things to talk about. I try googling topics to talk about but they are not are very...

I'm wondering if anyone has advice regarding how to not take every single thing that happens in life so seriously. I'm extremely sensitive and negative and fixate on things. I'm not sure what to focus on. I feel my thought processes are so different from everyone. because they are abnormally...

thank you for your response. i was not trying to gear my replies towards religion, more so giving my perspective of the world. I understand what you're saying, however i don't want the thread to head in that direction. I'm wondering if you or anyone have advice regarding how to not take every...

i feel this way too. however, i'm not used to it, I want it to go away and fill it, i just don't know how. how did you become comfortable with it?

completely agree. they are in relationships and don't have any need for friends. For the  few friends they do have, they don't want to invite anyone in cause they are comfortable with the situation the way it is and in the end, people don't like change. They also don't want to have to worry...

I agree. It's just that coming to terms with being alone is the hard part. And sometimes you just want someone to chat with about your day. Just a little interaction to make you feel like a normal human being. But there are people out there who are completely okay with being alone. I've also...