Recent content by dorky76

Yea, go out. Come out of your shell, you will have fun. The reason you probably hate parties is because you feel out of place. Well if things go well with the girl you clicked with, you will feel less out of place with her on your arms. This is coming from a guy who hates parties, but I...

Next time, focus on her. Talk a lot to her. That signifies a couple of things to her, that you MAY be interested (it's too early imo to lay out all your cards), but she won't know for sure. If she has interest in you, she will keep talking to you. You need to do a little better than a couple...

That is excellent news bud. You just finished 50% of the courting battle, and that was the hardest step. The next time you see her, it will be that much easier to talk to her again. Next time though, force yourself to look at her eyes. It maybe uncomfortable, and she will probably sense it...

Actually LC, I value you're opinion. I do also value the opinion of others, but I am really curious as to what your mindset holds. I believe since you are closer to my age than these early and mid 20's posters on here you can actually give me some insight to what might come ahead for me. You...

I think you're reading more into it. We met for coffee, 30 min later we parted ways. I made it clear to her in a very nice manner that I had no interest in pursuing it any farther. I'm a decent enough person where I am not going to make another person feel bad about themselves for no reason...

I'm curious, do you people actually believe what you wrote or are you trying to make yourself feel better? I have been single for most of my life and let me tell you it sucks balls. I hate every minute of it. I hate the fact I dream of a nameless girl who is suppose to fill the void I feel in...

Here is a nice little test, it's called the mirror test. Next time you think she is looking at you, do something like look at the clock on the wall, or look at your watch. If she copies what you do, then go up and talk to her. It means she is interested in you. Screw the online approach...

Because its too hard to be "friends" with someone whom you want to have a relationship with. The embarrassment comes over most people that they are seeing a girl that rejected them. If you are one of the rare few who can get over himself and his ego, more power to you, but most guys out there...

I have been lurking on this forum for a while with the odd posts now and then. I finally think I should post my story also, and since my loneliness comes from failed relationships, I thought this was the best place to post it. I am seriously confused with the events in my life and the way that...

If your 18, sure it sucks. But when I was 18-25 I too was honing what type of women I looked for. It's not like it doesn't go both ways you know. Women constantly complain that men are shallow in what they look for in women, just like men complain women don't know what they want. It is a two...

If you follow freedoms advice, your back to where you are now... Not the best advice I would give to someone in your situation. Let me also tell you from experience. If you let things linger on, you won't magically forget what happened when you finish high school. Lasting lost loves can...

Well if you think meeting someone you fall in love with at 29 versus meeting them at 21 is losing out then your right. I'm assuming your young yourself for even thinking this.

You sound like your really young. From what your saying I guess your 16 or 17. At your age your still learning how to deal with the opposite sex and with others in general. I know this sounds unbelievable now, but trust me when I say this, you will meet other women. She is not the last girl...

allan, you can overcome your shyness. I am actually a very shy person myself. I never had a problem with just talking to girls but like you I used to be intimidated by girls I was attracted to. I still am in a way, (I have a hard time asking them out, but that is a not due to my shyness) but...

Well since you are the one that broke it off first that does change the whole scenery. If she dumped you, I would have said run for the hills and don't look back. Tell you what, you are going to keep feeling confused like this because you just don't know how she feels. That is what you need...