Recent content by Elkapan

Thank you, for sharing your story and advice morrowrd. It really helped put things into perspective. I caught this just before heading out to work. I chose the earlier shift, but I knew, secretly, there was a chance to meet her on the shift change and have been keeping an eye for her, to say...

Every major event in the descent of our relationship of that period, I relayed honestly. No, she did not break up with me prior to her affair. And no, I most certainly did not "abuse" her. The only regrettable action on my part was leaving that note. But as a young man driven to height of...

I never had therapy before. Nor, do I know anyone who has. So I really don't know what behaviors and thought-processes are worthy of receiving therapy in our increasingly cash-strapped, and pathetically meager mental-health service provision by the NHS.  It was a genuine question. And I thank...

She is justified. I expect a lot of women, would be repulsed by how low a man can fall. And how much value and desire, he can attribute to what might seem to them, an innocuous and friendly social interaction. There is always the threat and possibility, that any man, could be like me. But I...

No. I told the Jobcentre I don't feel mentally sound. I think, perhaps, they believed I'm playing games. Before I could get an appointment with my doctor, they flagged up my old employer, and sent me for an interview. I got the job again. It wasn't much of an "interview", you just have to...

Where to begin? I'm a tragic figure. Foolish and hopelessly lost. I'm 32 now. I would say my life was last on track, aged 20. At this age, I was studying software development at university, achieving good grades— I had a promising life ahead of me. However, due to social anxiety, I struggled to...