Recent content by FlynnRyder

See, this is what I'm talking about. People are real caring and empathetic for the concerns and well being of other downtrodden people, but lonely men are given the "bootstraps" attitude. Mysterious: maybe YOU haven't been ridiculed publicly. I have, irl and online, repeatedly. It sucks, its...

Yes and no. Are women in general to blame for this toxic online subculture, who attack and threaten women mercilessly? who espouse these backward, antiquated ideas of how women should live their lives? of course not. but their is a feminist movement, a coalition of activists, scholars, social...

100% in agreement. when you're unwanted, everyone hates you, no one loves you, and any attempt to reverse your fortune is met with ridicule and disdain. you're supposed to suffer in silence. take what you're given (which is nothing), like with what you got, and be happy its not a fist in the mouth.

we can argue and debate and still remain friends, as long as we are civil with each other and avoid personal insults. its easy to be in each other's company when everyone agrees, but the true test of character is who you are and how you act when everyone is disagreeing. It's ok to debate. it's...

you clearly haven't been paying attention if you think feminists came up with the term incel, to label those they are afraid of. No. Just No. I will say this, feminist response to the incel phenomenon, which is to combat their toxicity with their own brand of toxicity, is part of the reason...

Dear god, I just can't even... where do I even begin?

Don't feel so bad, you can only be told to take a hike so many times, before you begin to feel resentful in general. it's natural. what's not natural is the toxic attitudes, misogyny, death threats and such that have been associated with the incel community. thats wrong. but us rejects should...

A lot of times, I feel like I'm trapped in a story, written by someone else, and this entity has scripted the sequences of events that constitute my life to be the most empty, vapid, dysfunctional, frustrating set of circumstances one could ever experience. Particularly, if I need to apply or...

What are some unpopular opinions that you have as a loner, that brings out the pitchforks and torches from the normies? I'll start: -I don't give a rat's tail about you're expecting. you have something I will never have, that I could have easily had, had you and others like you not been so...

can i join the chat??

Sorry I havent reached back out, I've been in a little bit of a fog. Tonight's my last night at the place I am staying at. after tomorrow afternoon I'm going to try and find a shelter I can stay at, I'll sleep in my car until then. i know a place where I can make arrangements until then. i...

I'm in the middle of an 80s rabbit hole. Across all the genres, I just think they perfected the formula in the 90s. I say this as someone who came up in the 90s and 2000s.

Am I not allowed to have expectations? I've tried it the way you're suggesting, just jumping at anything I can get, and it's got me here, with nothing to show for it except the physical and mental scars of working in environments where the company all but tells you you are absolutely worthless...

Yeah, I'm totally into the idea of getting training of some kind. the problem is everything else around me is so unstable, and I cant function enough to be studying and taking exams when I'm worried about where I'm going to live. If I can just find something slightly stable, I can manage. But I...

This might come as a bit of a shock, but I actually have experience in remote work. It's not ideal, but its the type of challenges I can manage. I have just been having trouble finding the right fit. A company that offers remote work, on top of realistic expectations, and a pay scale that...