Recent content by Ghost77

What happened?

Ouch. Chin up.

How long have you been married?

Work friendships rarely transition from the workplace to the “real” world but that doesn’t mean they have no value. A person you get on well with at work might never become a soul mate or BFF but you can still enjoy your work-based friendship for as long as you both work there. Some people will...

The short answer is that work is hugely beneficial to mental health on multiple levels. Especially if it’s work that you can take pride in and/or work that is important to you for any reason, but even work you dislike has some mental health benefits.

Funnily enough I really like those rare, rare days when I can shed a tear. 99% of the time I don’t feel any emotions at all. I know how to pull the right facial expressions (now smile, now look concerned, now look interested) but it’s a long time since I felt the emotions they’re supposed to...

Oh snap. Yesterday was my birthday. I spent the day alone as usual.  It’s weird how googling “loneliness” turns up loads of advice for people who *feel* alone but nothing at all for people who actually *are* alone. Anyway... I won’t say “happy” birthday. How about “congratulations for going...

I would like join plz

Okay firstly to the people commenting that men just complain a lot these days, I’d say consider how you’d feel about a man reacting that way to the suffragette movement back in the day. “Women like to complain a lot theses days”. Yes they did, and they had good reason. You can wave a dismissive...

Two for two on condescension without an argument. Do “you and a few others” have anything to contribute other than your sense of superiority?

If these “threads” keep cropping up maybe that should tell you something?

Some facts: Tinder rates the attractiveness of its users using some fairly complex algorithms. Tinder is used equally by men and women (more men than women is a myth). The top 80% of women match with the top 20% of men. The other 80% of the men compete for the attention of the bottom 20% of the...

My experience... most of the dating sites I've used were not scams, though some of the people on them were scammers. A bit of common sense will see you right with those. Don't give anyone your email - if they want to talk they'll ask for your number, not your email. Do use sites that require you...

I seem to be addicted to tweaking graphics settings and never manage to actually play anything :nerd: