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The act alone of buying a girl a drink does not mean that you are not a challenge. It doesn't have to mean anything more than the fact that you feel an initial attraction and don't mind spending a few bucks. Women do like a challenge, but men have to go out and make the first move. Funny...

Congratulations on the dates. When you are spending time with her I am sure it will be a good opportunity for her to get to know you and the place you grew up in. The reasons you gave for not having friends in your town don't sound particularly odd to me. I see no reason to create drama over...

This made me think of when I was going through a particularly difficult time in life. Reality would hit hard moments after waking, almost like the reverse of waking up from a bad dream.

I try to turn my sadness into anger because I feel it is better to be perceived by others as angry rather than sad. Especially at work. If somebody caught me at a time when I was feeling really depressed, word might spread fast and have a negative affect on my reputation. Some times I let myself...

The Sun's gravitational field weakens and the Earth breaks orbit. There's nothing we can do about it; all of us humans are merely along for the ride as Earth hurtles into the great void. This is how it all ends. It is a wonderful feeling when I fully wake up and realize that this is not...

Welcome Elle. This site can be beneficial in ways, but be sure to not give up on university life!

Rollercoaster. Would you rather jump off a 50 foot cliff into the rocky ocean where your escape boat awaits, or get apprehended by the authorities and likely spend the rest of your life in prison?

Point taken

Yes, some dreams are poisonous and misguided. Would you rather run naked through an angry swarm of bees or have your pinky finger on your good hand bent back so far as to break it?

One thing to consider is that you are asking a website filled with lonely men, so of course most are going to respond to your question with a resounding "No". What lonely man doesn't want a woman to express her interest in him? Personally, I would not suddenly lose interest in you because you...

Easiest remedy is to not be embarrassed to live with your dad. I know that there is a lot of pressure to be financially independent and have things figured out by the time your approaching your mid 20s, but there is nothing abnormal with what you are doing You're living with your dad because...

I believe that this is really the question you want answered, and the answer is yes. Use whatever attractive qualities you have to search for a romantic partner and do not be ashamed to do so. For some people this may be physical attributes, for you it is your intelligence and stable career. The...

At some point you have to make a bold and honest move. It's the man's job to attack the uncertainty of rejection head on. You have to give them the decision to accept or reject you. Women understand this convention very well, so most of the time they respect that you are trying. If you can talk...

I appreciate the warm welcome everyone.

Welcome. I enjoyed reading your post.