Recent content by Happy To Be

Its not healthy to obsess over someone else so much. Perhaps you should invest all of this energy and time into finding something that makes you happy - do you like art? Have you tried drawing or painting or making crafts? What about exercising? Are you religious? If so, spend time studying your...

:D Thank you for that! Gave me a much needed laugh. Mostly due to the reason that it rings so true lol

I'm sorry you have to go through this. Its a terrible feeling when you think you found a true, trustworthy friend and they suddenly drop you. I had a similar situation happen to me in real life about a year and a half ago. I got really close to a fellow female, I thought I found my "sister,"...

Hm. Ever read The Game by Neil Strauss? It sounds like that's exactly what you're looking for. Or just google "mystery method" or "pickup artistry." Sinns of Attraction is a good site to start at, you can sign up for a good amount of free introductory videos and there's some really awesome...

I'm lazy and unmotivated and honestly, I'm usually trying to fight off the urge to do something unproductive like sit on Stumble for hours versus getting off my butt and going to the gym... Even if its just for 30 min of cardio. Get myself moving and doing - I actually enjoy it once I get into...

Sounds like you have no interest left in this guy or in a serious relationship at the moment, which is perfectly fine and normal, you mentioned you're young. This is the time to explore what you need, who you are, all that wonderful stuff. So call him up, meet up at a coffee...

I struggle with BPD. Its horrible. I know exactly what you mean when you say it has "tore" you up and the people around you. I've been through far too many medications, klonopin amongst them. Not for me. Klonopin made me forget conversations minutes after having them. I disagree with how the...

If she said she's happy with her relationship, then that's that for the time being. We all know how relationships come and go though. You have planted the seed in her mind and if she will want to be with you, she will come to you herself. Otherwise, I agree with those saying you need to focus on...

I agree with everyone else saying give it a few more days, or a week. You have no idea what's going on in her life. She could be busy with lots of things, trying to replace a phone, money, schoolwork, a job (if she's got one). Regardless. To quick to judge yet. Give it more time and if its still...

We're not that scary. I promise. And if she's scary, you can run and find one that's not-so-scary. But really. Just say hi. If you see her on campus, say something like, "Don't you work at the (bookstore name)? I think you were my cashier once!" And watch her reaction. Instead of being so...

Far too many times, once it went past contemplation. However, nowadays, when that feeling rises up again something deep inside of me tells me that tomorrow will be brighter if I just hold on tight, if I just get through this feeling, it will pass. And no problem, no issue, no person, no sadness...

That brought tears to my eyes. Because it rings so true.

I would thing think that's a nice gesture, but to be completely honest I have to admit I would have some slight knee-jerk thought that there will be a pass made at me, or this is initiation into conversation for my number, or something of the sort. I wish I could say I would not think that way...

Lack of family, lack of friends, this gnawing feeling of being flawed and incapable of forming meaningful friendships with normal people. Lack of time, as well. I go to school and work as a waitress, free time is usually spent napping in bed or typing up papers. My schedule may just be an excuse...

I'm 20 and in a 15 month relationship. I have ALWAYS longed for a meaningful connection, at the age of 15, 17, and 19. In high school I was a "freak" and went to a rich preppy suburban school so any chances of boys looking my way were nonexistent. My first year in college I had really high hopes...