Recent content by HappyLoner

I cut my mother out of my life when I was 16 and it was best thing I've done. Save your energy, happiness and time for the people deserving it. You don't have to be like your parents, instead you have the perfect example of how not to be.

No intentions stealing your thread, just referring when I was in same sit. I choose to divorce and have no regrets. Living with a spouse that ignores you is a dead end. My wife ignored me and criticized all initiative so I got nowhere. My divorce learned me i don't have to fit in, Iam free to do...

In my opinion we tend to romanticize and make memories lot happier than they actually were. Often we regret decisions we made but if you factor the exact knowledge you had at that decision time you would have made same decision again, when we gain more knowledge we will regret a decision if it...

Yes this one was rough. I always believed in kindness and helpfulness but at the end had to accept it is the disgusting ******** that always is rewarded, the more lies and deceit the higher the reward. Once realizing this it was my choice to stay kind and helpful (and happy) but distance me from...

Thank you. @randomguy, @Sunless Sky, @nothing to do, @constant stranger , @Finished , @TheRealCallie, [USER=179019]@StarDust Thank you all for investing your time replying here in my thread and helping me out, it is many years since anyone invested this much time in interacting with me and I...

In my opinion I hold your relatives hoarding of clothes and stuff just as bad as pointless spending buying a bottle champagne on a night club, the result is waste of resources, material and energy for producing and further energyconsumption for waste management of the unnecessary overload of...

Im so happy there is one more like me =0) I traveled around the world for 20 years working and realized you can only create your own happiness where you stand, happiness can not be chased or found somewhere in the world. Once i realized this there is nowhere i want to travel and boy do people...

Thanks. We agree but I try to be objective to see if I missed something. It is a good feeling having everything prepared. Last time I had to put a life in boxes I decided to get rid of more things than i buy and have all funeral arrangements paid and sorted.

Thank you. I read loads of posts here from people feeling miserable in their loneliness so I feel slightly dishonest not being miserable. Perhaps I might help out with another view on this and validate my presence here.

Yepp, same here except I don't consider it negative. I'm quite happy as it is as i have the freedom doing whatever i feel like, no obligations to anyone. I see my situation as filled with undisturbed possibilities. And not really sure why Iam on this forum.

Hej. It depends to if I can meet your expectations for that conversation. I see myself as quite narrowminded, I'm not into gaming, only listens to TTSO music (Turn That honeysuckle Off) and live other side the world from you. What are most interesting current events in your opinion ?

Dear forum, I'm new here and need your reflections as I'm only capable of thinking what i do so to think new i need your input : I did have quite large group of social network but I grew so tired of them I just couldn't keep up the contact. All conversations was about who made what with who...

Thank you. Your pm and link worked but discord not. I don't like apps channeling/steering my info and the webinterface just wouldnt work so that was not for me.

Interesting how we landed in same opinion from opposite paths. I have never been into gaming so I can not share that experience with you but just as you I have started looking into history as we seem to repeat same mistakes over and over again. We may have fancy sparkling toys but humans have...

@nothing to do Please ruin my thread if you want to, I'm interested hearing your thoughts and thankful if you want to invest your time here or in your specific thread where you tag me so I can find your elaborations. For me being able thinking new thoughts i need help from all you others outside...