Recent content by hitch1983

Thank you. My issue with those 2 other chances to see her. Is one is my first day at uni day of the new semester. So it will be very difficult to skip that one. and the second involves an important training course at work, which will be a benefit to my career. A course that takes time to...

Just posting this here as a way to vent my frustration.  I already know the advice most will give and i know the solution myself. But the journey is hard and i dont have anyone to talk it thru with.  So i figured if i put in writing, i could type away the frustration at the very least. Just...

One persons needy is another persons endearment.   and anyway We werent declaring love for each other, and that actual text was in isolation and not true of the context of the pairing between us. lead me on is a maybe not the right description.  And anyway whilst im disappointed its over im...

  As for being "Needy" as your all saying.   i was no different to who i was from day 1.  She was all over me as much as i was her.  It wasnt  a 1 way street.  she was regularly calling me, sending me memes.  texting me, kissed me first, even made the first move online. If you think my example...

Ive slept on it and i still come to the same conclusion. Im sorry but when i date people, i do it with a purpose.  I dont expect every date to be magic and roundabouts and loves next best story. I ease it into based on the grounds it develops.   She set the context, sorry we set the context...

how does she not owe me any consideration.  what difference does it make what i am to her.  Im a human being. she was perfectly cool with sharing intimate stories etc before the date and on the date.  so why do i become just a non entity because she doesnt feel it anymore. thats leading me...

she was texting me and phoning me.  it wasnt a one way street. it was mutual. we got on brilliantly and even the next day after the date  the dynamic stayed the same between us.  it was literally from sunday morning when she woke up from that party that she went all cold without any explanation.

i gave up and dragged an answer out of her.  Would i have got one after a couple of days, i doubt it but ill never know. But im pretty sure the anxiety thing was bullshit.  The online presence on another dating site and showing online of the method of communication we were talking through...

Got back on the wagon so to speak and dated a girl. Tried to go into it with the advice from here and as a result i had one of the best dates of my life.  I was relaxed and less stressed. Its a girl from online again. The connection was almost instantaneous from the first message.  Really...

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Fitness is my hobby.  Im in the best shape of my life.  Ripped, six pack abs etc.  But body building is lonely road most of the time. Its probably the reason i can get the dates in the first place.   But it doesnt exactly make good conversation, talking about workouts and macros etc. with girls

Came to the realisation im lonely because im boring.  I can never get past 2 dates.   When im on a date with a girl i like, i go shy, i try force myself out of it, but i cant really and because of my lifestyle and situation ive nothing really of interest to say. Im 35, employed with a passion...

OK had a date last sat.  The lead up was great, texting back n forth like a tennis match, long phone calls, all looking good. Date day: We climbed Arthurs Seat in Edinburgh.  Nothing too taxing or challenging and both into wanderlust.   During the climb she was touchy feely, holding onto my arm...

i have a problem when it comes to dating i can attract girls online of all types but when i find one that likes me as much as i like her i struggle to develop it into something more. online chat and even talking on the phone, i can be charming, funny, witty and a interesting guy but as soon...